@roger,
roger wrote:
There is a problem with using groups to hide the things with limited interest like puzzles, Latin, and ESL. If someone joins to find out the best spelling for their new Latin tattoo, they are going to plop it right in the middle of the main board, or the General Group. Even if they are aware of the Latin Tattoo Group, they are hardly going to seek membership in a special group to post one question.
In any case, I continue to believe that private groups will be detrimental to the site as a whole. Either there are good discussions going on that most are unaware of, or there will be visible and maybe provocative comments that most of us will not be able to respond to.
Once again, the rat impresses me.
I agree for the most part.
Well, I could see a group specifically for puzzles/games, as a person generally knows if that's a major interest of theirs.
All this "seeking membership" stuff....I'll be honest, it makes me feel kinda unwanted.
I have to admit, my feelings have been hurt by that "non-idiot" comment. I ususally don't take things personally, especially when they are said by an individual that I know is just trolling.
But, in this case, I would have a hard time thinking anyone would want me to join one group or another, because, guess what? At some point I'm going to monopolize, act the fool (if that's what is meant by being extreme, I don't know), etc. There's been enough times here where my ususally impenetrable force field has been compromised, and I sit and think "wow, do so many people hate me that much? Maybe I'll just leave everyone alone, and stop posting altogether"
I'm not saying this fishing for "oh chai, we like you ok", that's not the point. Making groups where someone can determine "you don't quite belong" sucks. I want to know that I can say something without having to guard my words.
Jesus, we have to do that at work, in society, even with family sometimes. It's important to have somewhere to go where you can let it all hang out.