@Night Ripper,
Night Ripper wrote:You're just trying to be magnanimous but the fact that you did all that typing in an attempt to attack me without doing your homework just makes you look that much more ridiculous.
I wasn't trying to "attack" you, I was just being inordinately pedantic. I will likely do it again to you, given the opportunities you provide, and it won't be an "attack" then unless you want to infuse it with emotional value. Not all disagreement has to be personal to everyone.
And as for being ridiculous I've been known to look plenty ridiculous on occasion, in nearly ten years here I think you could make a very good collection me being as ridiculous as they come. I just don't think it matters to me as much as you think it does or should. I'd feel more ridiculous trying to not ever look ridiculous no matter how long the stretch than just owning up to my brainfarts.
Quote:Your halfhearted attempts to downplay your failure won't work on me. I know your ego is bruised and it makes me smile.
If you count momentary embarrassment at being wrong with a lot of strength of conviction you could say my ego was "bruised" for a couple seconds and if it means that much to you to think my ego is deeply wounded I can learn to live with that. It's not going to change my life much and it sounds like you have your heart set on that narrative.
But I think what you mean by "downplaying" (what would the opposite be?) here is basically not having a cow if you find out you are wrong like you think I should. Instead of obdurately turning up the strength of conviction to 11 I think it's a lot easier to just admit to being wrong. It's much less effort than infallible posturing and has the additional benefit of intellectual honesty. I'm fine with a fallible self-image. If less flattering it's at least less discordant with reality as well.
Et tu? I need a better word for this kind of smugly duplicitous salutation, but for now I'm calling it the Mark Noble.