dlowan wrote:This is why a lot of treatment methods stress stopping coitus for a while, and initially specifically NOT trying for the orgasm.
Or ze ole blindfold. By eliminating one of the major senses they can concentrate on specific sensory input. If they relax it usually goes well.
I seem to remember that Kinsey's research methods were deeply flawed in terms of reportage. Like, he'd interview the couple at the same time, and that's when he'd ask the woman if she reached climax.
That what would make sense to me, anyway, from those numbers. I agree that women can genuinely not know, but it would make more sense that the women didn't want to give their little game away. ("Of course I did, honey, good night.")
Re: the whole penile-vaginal thing, more women need to do their Kegels. Kegels are just good every which way.
I'd say the gspot is equally to blame as the clitoris for the female orgasm and kegels help stimulate the gspot.
I don't know how everything works exactly, seriously, I've taken a class called "The Biology of Women" and read "Our Bodies, Our Selves" and such and I really do know the nuts and bolts, but there is some level above nuts and bolts and below the purely psychological that I don't get.
we animals are very complicated.
You women have it tough.
You're complicated enough emotionally, nevermind physically to the point where you don't even know your own bodies.
I really, really, feel bad....really.
Very.
Well, women, anyway.
Men are, in my experience, rather more straightforward in this arena.
Hmmmm, some of us know our own bodies a little better than others, but I get your meaning.
Oh hey I know my own body! Know what works, and works quite nicely, thankyewverymuch.
The precise why of it is confusing, tho.
absolutely - I was responding to Slappy, btw.
I was too, didn't see ya there.
See? You're both confused!
Craven de Kere wrote:dlowan wrote:This is why a lot of treatment methods stress stopping coitus for a while, and initially specifically NOT trying for the orgasm.
Or ze ole blindfold. By eliminating one of the major senses they can concentrate on specific sensory input. If they relax it usually goes well.
Lol! Yes, the relaxing is the key!
What? Some women don't have orgasms? Get outta here!!!
What? Some women don't have orgasms? Get outta here!!!
I read somewhere that the average man lasts eleven minutes. Huh.
