@rosborne979,
Initially, upon formation, I agree.
But, using our own galaxy (spiral, yet flat, equatorially) as an example, we clearly see a funnel-effect in play.
This, being parallel to the 'event horizon', throws gravitational symmetry out the window.
Or do you perceive, for instance, material beneath the event being drawn to the upper horizon?
If so, the journey of such would be visible.