the problem there is, will they spend it on a gift or just spend it, i realize it's their money to do with what they want, but at least a card means they have to get a physical object and not just piss it away on general things
But a card means thay they need to go to the shop and choose something, and, depending of the local laws, that may be even within certain time constraints. I dont want people to trouble themselves going somewhere and choosing something to get their present. Im the one giving the present, so im the one who should have all the trouble =)
I'm an atheist, I don't believe in charity, I never give anything to anybody.
Charity is not the only reason to give things. You may want to give something to someone merely because you like then, for example. Or maybe you want to encourage someone towards something.
I also dont believe in charity and... I dont remember then was the last time I gave someone a present =)
I dont celebrate holidays nor birthdays, so there is nothing to make me want to give presents except feeling like it.