At least, that is my impression when i read.
What Ever Happened to the Vikings? By Elizabeth Debold.
Quote:Sleuthing a bit, I discovered that in 2000, a feminist group at Stockholm University demanded that all urinals be removed because they were discriminatory to women.
Quote:But it never occurred to me that as women took to their feet, men would sit down-on the john, no less!
Quote:Ten years or so ago, I read a news story about how the Swedes were bored in the bedroom-their interest in sex had actually declined since the late sixties. The article suggested that women were finding it difficult to maintain sexual interest in their partners. In the effort to create a truly gender-equal society, Swedish men had become so, shall we say, similar in temperament to women that the spark that keeps an intimate relationship alive was getting snuffed out. Could it be that in Sweden, to put it a bit crudely, women were women, and the men were too?
The girls don` t like the guys, because the guys are so much like girls.
Quote:Hard-core pornography is available on television. Women sunbathe wearing only G-strings in city parks.
Free porn on TV, and naked girls in the park.
Quote:Denmark has one of the world's highest divorce rates. In eight out of ten cases, the woman ends the marriage.
This is what happens when men behave like women. The women are so turn off that they want a divorce.
Quote:Martin jumps in, speaking rapidly but softly. "I have tried to give women what they say they want, but they always want something else. Women think that what they want is for the man to really talk and to be at home with the kids. But she doesn't want that for long. She wants a strong man."
Martin got it! Women like a strong men to tell them what they need to do. They don` t need a friend.
Quote:"We end up relating to women in a way that is more like woman to woman, not man to woman," says Bo. "We are feminized in our relationships, and they don't last."
Some guys love to talk about their feelings. As such. they are great with women. They become their friend.
Quote:"I think that the big problem with the new man is that we have forgotten to take responsibility. We let women make all of the decisions. And now we have no direction."
Quote:But I find myself distracted. I can't get out of my head an encounter I had with one of the men after our meeting. We didn't say much, but as we stood face to face, I was drawn to his eyes, which conveyed a kind of yearning that I found almost irresistible. I'd never seen a man with eyes like that. And meeting the gaze of another man, I saw the same soft, beseeching quality in his eyes too. There was something so familiar about that look. As I turned away to join Peter and Jon, it hit me: I know where I'd seen that look before. The night before we three had been talking about classic masculine ideals and watched YouTube clips of Humphrey Bogart in the 1942 classic Casablanca. But the look isn't Bogart. No, it's the quavering, vulnerable expression in the eyes of Ingrid Bergman as she gazes at Bogart, her former lover and potential savior.
girlish eyes. Dutch men are desperate for women that they would do whatever. Desperate guys never get any.
Main point is that girls like guys that are dominating, powerful, and decisive. They will not stand for guys that like to talk about their emotions. They don` t like guys that would pick a major just so that they can get girls. To do so is doubt your own natural ability to get the girl, and in the eyes of most girls, it is a sign that you are not confident enough. Best way is to find that inner you that is horny, perverted, and impulsive.