@Khethil,
Khethil;96054 wrote:Many people are, it's only when they're so negatively-delimited, as I pointed out, that they becoming "closed"; it takes an innocuous description of a mindset and place it into the most-negative contest possible. Those very examples are excellent illustrations of the narrow view; I'd thought you were maybe using satire to make the point. I'm not sure I know now, nor does it really matter. I thought it full of enough irony to comment.
I thank you for these serious comments. Now, i should appreciate you for taking time out to study the point...and realise that there is some bit of skepticism and sarcasm, in the 'excellent' illustrations. And yes there was a subtle black humour in that, now that i reread it a couple of times, like you i also think there is satire in it. However, what perplexes me is how do people miss the main point. Deliberation and specialisation is getting to be too boring these days. Thats speaking for myself.
Khethil;96054 wrote:But yea, to your main point: I'm a man, but that's not all I am nor should anything any man does be attributed to me individually. I'm also a father, but that's not the sum-total; it only speaks to one part of what I do or perhaps how I think. In the same vein, someone described as conservative only speaks to the preponderance of their desire to conserve traditional ways of co-existing, it's not the sum-total of their being.
I get what you're saying, but I think the problem has more to do with the type of damnation illustrated then the labels themselves. We can all be open to all ideas; it is within us. It only becomes difficult to do so when people, to whom such labels are applied, are impugned because of the negative behavioral-categorization with which they've been imbued.
Good luck with this
I agree......... with your analysis. The 'preponderence of their desire'........ is a good point to start with. this fairly can be described as a factor - a major factor in the decision making process. This holds true, in general to all people, irrespective of gender, age, caste or class,.
Now, lets talk about the closed mindsets, narrowness, negative behavioral categorisation (can we call this indoctrination/conditioning or a milder socialisation) concepts and process that individuals and communities go through across the board. We all have closed mindsets. Unless it is ...due to training or a great genius mind. I too am having a closed mind. Only i am trying not to be. You may accuse me of pretending that. Fair enough.
Preponderence of desire, can also be termed as wishfullness, levels of expectation, ambition, acheiving certain desired goals. If you agree - all this associated term-concepts follows logically in a given general population.
Now, let us take the conservative example which you picked up. Do each of those hardcore conservative commit suicides if they find themslevs in a quandary or a loop wherein they are confronted with a situation where they find there own god fearing son declaring himslef as an homosexual, or their teenage child is pregnant, etc.
My submission is that, no, not all go and take that extreme step. Isn't it?
So, that means, these parent of conservative background, suddenly has to adjust to a more liberal-sounding ethos. Some of such parents recede into a coccoon, or the bravehearts choses to take it on their stride and there are others who would cut their relationships forever.
Now, if these assumptions are true to the general trends (in such categories), my interest is to know, how and why did those parents who adjusted to their childrens misadventure/misdeamour/delinquency/etc/etc/etc, take a decision to accept the fact of life or nature - and undervalue the values they so defended all their life.
Does not the irony...a cruel one, hit the face like a cold splash of water on a cold winter night.
My interest lies more specifically at the issue of acceptence and adjustment of value systems in the cruel canvas of life.
Having learn't from this cruel paradoxical situations, does it not erode the faith or belief in the values they held on to.
If so, is there not a contradiction? okay let me end it here for now. thanks
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Didymos Thomas;96271 wrote:No, I work at a gas station. And I don't need to be omniscient to correct generalizations that simply do not apply. You think feminists believe all men to be evil, but I have never read such a thing in feminist literature. So, I say something about it.
Hi DT,
you have some misconception on the word 'generalisation'. You are taking it as 'majority view'. You missed in my initial post, where i start on Liberalism and Conservatism - the word 'some' which means a few or a minority...... i thought it would be obvious thereafter that i am refering to those view-points or decision intiators which are examples and nothing is sacrosanct about those examples.
But you choose to nit-pick the trivial, and the obvious, and the frivilous.
Like it is obvious that all feminists cannot think that all men are evil.
It is simply not possible by your own reasoning which i found were fair to an extent. It is also not factually or logically possible.
Moreover, i never mentioned i believed what they believe in. (neither did i mention my examples are true or are facts - you are assumming things). You are deliberately twisting the issue in a parsimonious manner.
You are also unable to understand the applications of 'examples'.
Okay, if you want my apology for writing it because you were unwilling to see the context, and saw only through a narrow angle. I apologise.
But what if i bringforth a literature that says men are evil. What would your position be. ?
Anyway, i beleive you are the
most read individual, and so start believing in your beliefs.
:brickwall:
yours faithfully.