@xris,
xris;118264 wrote:I have never had a contraption that has caused me an ethical problem. Splitting the atom, genetics,chemical engineering, now they cause problems for society but not me. Ive tried very hard to think of a contraption that has caused me sleepless nights, contemplating my moral reaction. I have opinions on genetic engineering but I had no problem formulating my ethical response, it was built on my moral back ground.
Driving a car anywhere I can walk causes me a problem... Every day in America enough oil is lost on our roads to equal the Exxon Valdeze...With life, everthing is an ethical question...Just because we refuse to hear them does not make them go away...
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pantheras;118251 wrote:And isnt that just about using any tool, which they have at disposal? There will be always a willingness to take easiest and most effective way no matter how it will look like. People will always make up any argument which approve that behaviour. Until they will face an consequences.
One thing I am certain of, is that when it comes to commerce everything here has a set price, so people are less inclined to bargain a better price... But; as far as law goes, people just use it, as a threat, which is a serious one if they have a good attorney, and some times the threat of dragging some one through an expensive process that will not be finished until the money has long run out, -is a very serious one...When it comes to making a durable deal with some one, it is best to start at the object rather than go to the down side, of threats, or abuse...Remember now, that you are looking for justice in all things, which you are prepared to give; so what does the other person need, and what is it they want???...
Deal making is a form of relationship, and the problem is that when people rely on a form, like a fixed price, they forget their own power, their own ability to relate, and in the process they forget to see the other in the deal as a person...You have to be able to relate, informally, and we are losing it here...We are all form and no relationship... So; prepared to be lonely if you come here; because many people here are lonely...It is a curse they do not know how to cure...They are so used to being formal; having the form structure their relationships that they just cannot relate informally...
I want to tell you something...When I go to the store, and I cash out, I try to notice the people with whom I am dealing, their name, for example, and I try to relate with them... This is not natural to me, but learned; and it is the rarest thing I guess, judging by the warm reaction... People pay what they are ask, say thanks and good bye...No body cares, and in the process, every one is denied something essential to their sense of being: Recognition....I would not tell you that it is not important to me too, or that I am being altruistic just by saying hello... I only consider how mind numbing jobs can be, with no sense of creation, with short wages, and long hours dealing with people who cannot or will not relate with you as an equal...