@Joe,
I am not sure I am saying that philosophical positions should "draw" on emotions and "experience" for their ground without understanding how the word is being used. If philosophy is a form of thinking, then it must have its ground in reason and understanding.
I am saying that, at least to me, philosophising should be "personal" in the sense that it comes from the individual, and is formative to his being. I take very seriously the words behind PhiBetaKappa, that philosophy is the guide to life, not something foreign or outside of it, not some sort of hobby like trainspotting. I would hope that one does philosophy authentically.
I myself take some philosophical positions extremely seriously, but I also take it as a matter of faith (as it were) that these can be justified---or at least explained---by the use of reason and understanding to anyone of good will and openness. Shouting before the "court of reason" will not advance the process of finding truth.
Perhaps, though, "pacifist" does make sense when considering some kinds of argumentation, since propaganda and informal fallacies are a kind of violence (although of an intellectual nature) just as is the brute force of barbarism found in so many places in today's world that seeks to silence thought?