@pagan,
Hello, Pagan! This quick reply comes about ten days since your post. I'm sure that my wife and I will celebrate Samhain at home, just the two of us. We will remember our dead loved one's (family and friends) as usual. By the time you reach retirement age, as we have, that list of lost loved ones gets pretty long. :-) We will reminisce about old times with them and celebrate their cherished memories that so enrich the treasury of our lives. We will invite their blessings on us in the year ahead, beginning this Yule, and we will give them our blessings, both for those who will abide here for a while longer and for those who must let go the past and move on.
We don't build bonfires around our old country house that will not survive us. But we will light a few candles that night, make a ritual circle perhaps and sing a song or two with our gods and goddesses (the Moon for me, the Christ for my wife, and all the other embodiments of the divine in our world). We will drink in that special night air that autumn breathes, bathe ourselves in the waning moonlight on a bed of fallen leaves, hay, cattails, and old brown cornhusks, sharing homemade bread and wine as we talk into the night about such nights that have been before and such as may yet come to us.
Oh, I'm not so sure we'll find it in our old diabetic bodies to get all of this done, but we will hopefully capture the essential spirit of the time.
Bright blessings to you and yours on your escapade to Scotland for the holy days of this high Sabbat! Blessings in fact to all our pagan comrades, our sisters and brothers of the spirit, our waterkin gathered here at this site. May you all have a memorable Samhain.
Samm