@rhythmicidea,
rhythmicidea wrote:Atheists I have talked to claim that you either believe, or don't believe. And that there is no middle ground.
I'm an atheist, and like theists although we share a basic assertion, we don't all say the same thing. I personally would answer your basic question with:
Of course there's middle ground, the one that says, "I don't know if I believe or not".
But if I can offer some unsolicited advice, I think it a good, productive and enlightening experience for everyone to discover where they stand. It's very easy (even natural) for folks to just kind of, "... let the issue sit" without taking a stance. The only problem I see with this is that every action we take, every decision - even down to our very value system - is underpinned by our concept of mortality and continuance. To not explore this, within yourself, places a life on "autopilot"... ungrounded and done in ignorance of the "self".
Making this journey is not so much a "let's look at evidence!" as it is the *discovery* of where you are now. Read, talk, pray, debate, ponder, research and most importantly: Think about it. For those who sit on the agnostic fence (which is, of course, everyone's right) there is - I believe - a basic feeling inside them, leaning one way or the other.
Its only after some very serious, very private introspection that you can find wherein you lie.
Hope this makes sense, Cheers!
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