@William,
yes i think i can see what you mean.
For me the dropping of a grand narrative has done something too. What i personally prefer about a spiritual pantheism (without one ruling god or goddess), a spiritual multitude in all of nature, as well as other narratives like science and love, is that the oneness would be greater than any one way of trying to understand for any being..... and even as mere humans that truth is open to us. It deeply connects all of us who see it that way, in a multitude of ways.
Very nice chattin william. It has clarified some of my thoughts.