@Solace,
Solace wrote:... but I've got to say that this idea that atheists denying the existence of God somehow supports the existence of God is just about the silliest thing that I've ever heard...
Yea I've heard this from time to time as well. It's so completely backwards - and so seemingly obviously so - that frankly I'm blown away that it can make sense to anyone. But that's all well and good[1]. The only part that I wish I could understand, is how someone with some apparent sense of reason can say something so blatantly false, "... denying X proves X". Wow
But I am an atheist - I can't really say I'm 'proud' of it, but I'll happily admit it in forums like this[2]. But I think it important to note that by definition, by nearly all dictionaries,
an atheist as one who doesn't believe (which is to say "disbelieves" or hasn't any belief) except wikipedia, which also tosses in "... affirms the nonexistence of". I've done a lot of research into this over the years and I think it important to keep our definitions straight.
What defines an atheist is the "... I don't believe there is"; not necessarily "... there isn't", although a certain flavor of atheist claims this knowledge (which is preposterous, unless they know all things everywhere throughout the entire cosmos).
The only difference between an atheist and the agnostic is the "knowable" aspect. The agnostic believes this knowledge isn't "known" factor - that is is either unknown or cannot be known and therefore "makes no stand" so to speak. These definitions, which one can find in hundreds of definition-sources, do have overlap and in some cases could reasonably be called ambiguous. But let's not get mired in the muck and mud - most sources support the paraphrasing I've done here. The theist says "I believe", the atheist says "I don't believe" and the agnostic says "I neither believe nor disbelieve".
As far as the "why convince" sentiment Solace brings up - it's a great question. I can only speak for myself, but I enjoy these exchanges. I find it fascinating; the immense diversity of rationale folks employ. Dug down deep, it seems to all come back to hope, but that's another issue.
Yea, I'd really like to hear someone flesh out the ".. denying X actually proves X"-type of logic.
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[1] And this acceptance is how it should be; as solace implied, "convincing" isn't something that comes from someone pontificating to another. Whether or not theological systems adhere or bounce off someone has much more to do with the individual's life-experiences, value systems or even significant emotional/intellectual events that can alter. Arguing doesn't help, preaching damn-sure doesn't help. Sharing views can
[2] I can't speak for other cultures, but I can stay that admitting such a thing publically - in a work place for example - generally has very negative consequences. Thus, unless I perceive an open and non-judgmental environment, I'll generally keep this to myself (even outright lie if I think it necessary).