@Deftil,
Khethil,
"Yea, and
understanding that this is what's happening, in the mind of the experiencer can be a practical benefit we all can enjoy. Unfortunately, I feel like there's an element of awareness that I'm missing. Other than just
knowing this is what's going on, I believe there's an essential element of this that I'm missing that's more important *sigh*." quote
I am not sure I am understanding you properly, is what is missing a means of dealing with the negative irrational beliefs that we all have about ourselves?
Deftil,
"I basically agree boagie. Still, when it's natural for me to percieve things negatively, even though I recognize that perception determines the quality of life, I have trouble shifting my perceptions so as to make them positive. I try though. Oh man do I." quote
I quite understand, I think we all do, it is a problem we all face. The most interesting approach to the problem I have found is something called, Rational- emotive- behavioural- therapy, a cognitive therapy started by the late Abert Ellis. It is examining the irrational beliefs we have about ourselves whether the irrationalism is caught at the thought stage, the emotional stage or the behavioural stage, if caught at the behavioural stage it can be linked bact to the cognitve. It is a fairly impressive approach, and in the absence of any major breakthroughs in neurology, I think it is the best approach available.