@OCCOM BILL,
I totally understand what you say about helping people to make yourself feel good. It's pleasurable enough that I find it self-indulgent.
OCCOM BILL wrote:At the same time; I feel no guilt when I indulge in a fine bottle of wine, or ponder the need for both a relatively useless convertible sports car and a motorcycle in a relatively cold climate.
I want to steer this away from charity to be honest. A better way to help people understand the core logic I'm trying to get at and away from personal mottos would be to ask for a moral compass that you can apply to the moral dilemmas of
others to determine what is the ideal.
Quote:Clipping the one guy instead of ten is easy enough, and killing the proverbial child to end all the world’s disease is a no-brainer. But these things get complicated when you consider your loved one being the one.
The logic isn't complicated, the emotions are. I'd probably let the emotions win myself but that doesn't make the logic tough for me. It just means I am not a sociopath.
Quote:I’d like to think I’d choose the cliff over the crowd if alone, but what if my family was in the back seat? I’d probably run over 2 of your kids before 1 of my own (example chosen with the knowledge neither of us have any.)
I probably would as well, and may not even be able to employ any reasoning at all in an instinctive reaction. But that doesn't make the logic tough, it makes it tough to follow.
Quote:I think as close as I could come to a simple answer would be: All things being equal, the least suffering is the best; providing you weight woman and children double and understand that my selfish interests (and occasionally my reactionary instinct for justice) will frequently tip the scales. Does that clarify anything? I guess I’m a mess.
Your caveats are mainly saying that you aren't perfect, I don't think you should codify it into your ideal, it's understood that you can't be the ideal.
But why women and children first? Longer life and capacity to bear life? Personally I buy the children one much more than the women one. Don't get me wrong, it's one of the things where I'd likely act as you advocate despite not subscribing to the logic, but I can't really justify elevating female life over male life logically myself (capacity to bear life isn't logically consistent to me given how I treat sperm for just one example).