@Arella Mae,
Dont feel bad. Its common for the scrotal sac to be empty and furled up like a butterfly" s wings for a few days. The actual testes may not descend from the omentum for a coupla weeks. From the pics you posted I was saying it was a jenny and it was only after you said that she is a he did I get the picture. NOW, IMO it IS damn important to have him gelded when his "boys" descend. DO this early (maybe some of the A2K vets will give their opinion). Weve found that the sooner we castrate our ram lambs, the less aggressive they can turn out if we keep them for wool stock. We only keep a small number of full rams and we keep them in pastures fairly distant from the ewe herd. An un castrated livestock can be really mean and jacks have been known to do some damage . This was an opinion of my AMish neighbor who has a brace (team) of jack mules to do work. All his are castrated and I can walk into the fields and they come around like a bunch of well behaved kids.
Our red cattle includes one bull and he can be a real pain. I usually just drive out to his pasture area cause if Im not watching if Im doing work in the field, he will come charging up and then at about 10 feet away hell just suddenly stop and turn around in a circle just to let me know that hes a toughy. Ill usually smack him on the rump and thats our litle "power" game.
Un castrated stock can be agressive and can cause some concern for safety if you have little kids around. Dont be afraid just be in charge and dont let him walk over you. Id make sure the mama understands that you are the boss also. Still, castration would be my suggestion when his testes descend.\\
Several years ago, Mrs F got nailed by a big suffolk ram that we rescued from a "hobby farm" . I had to take her to the hospital as she was driven head first into a board fence . She needed stitches in her upper shoulder and had a black eye and a sore rump. She wa really sore for several days and I had to endure an embarrassment of being interviewed by a domestic violence counselor who had no clue about farmers and barnyard safety issues.