Ladies, would you ever use the services of a prostitute?

no - wouldn't be able to get into it - need the mental part

I don't think I'd have to pay for it (yet), but anyway, I prefer it when there's more to it than the physical. Not to say ... uh, never mind.

No.

Sure, but do we have to have sex? I really need someone strong to move a bunch of boxes out of the basement, install some closet shelving and change the oil in my truck.

Good thinking, Green Witch.
I already have one of those.

Yeah, I've got one too. He's the one I have the sex with.

No.

Sorry - I can't get that turned on that quickly. I have to have some kind of attraction besides the physical. I am beyond the stage where I need all that outside stuff.
- And he would have to cook breakfast, later.

Your husband, I presume?

Mine is a fancy schmansy handyman.

There goes my retirement plan....I hope you girls are happy....

good answer green witch. you've got your priorities straight.

msolga, respecting your no answer, but curious as to why no.



why will a woman go to a club, and let herself get picked up by and go home with a stranger for a one night stand?

Wally and I knew this older lady, Helen, who had been married a whole basketful of times. At that time she was currently single, and was always on the prowl....not for a man to just sleep with, but a new husband. It wasn't about money or anything. It was because she made it clear she had never had sex with a man she wasn't married to. So, when she wanted sex, she made sure she fell in love with the guy she wanted to screw.

I hear about men, as they mature, getting in touch with their sensitive side, their feminine side.

The more mature I get, the more I appreciate my masculine side. I think many people have looked at my practical nature with suspicion over the years. Now that I don't have all this estrogen ruling, or at least influencing my moods, I feel more at ease cutting to the chase.

I love my husband dearly, but if he was gone, I wouldn't be in any big rush to look for a replacement.

You could always become a handyman, Ionus.
Heaps of demand for them!

It would be completely out of character, apart from anything else, chai.

I just can't see myself cavorting with a fancy man!

Besides, I don't think I'd respect myself in the morning!

A what ? Isnt that a religion ?

Only when we are praying for them to show up.

Me, too. I call him "in-house tech support."

Seriously, I can't see myself hiring a man for sex. If I had to pay him, it would be a huge turn-off.

Nah, Ionus.

It's the lovely fellow that comes around & fixes my leaking roof, repairs the toilet, useful stuff like that ...

He's a gem. I wouldn't go swapping him for any old gigolo. Good, reliable handymen are hard to find!

I have never had the need to pay for sex.

What is this handyman thing ? I will have to google it..