@Ceili,
I'm a nervous flyer, and I have to fly a lot. I always handled it 'unaided' (my sister takes a valium (she's a REALLY nervous flyer) until after the time we were flying from London into JFK in a thunderstorm - the whole flight was fine until landing - we'd approach and then speed up and regain altitude. The pilot did this about twice before I started getting really nervous and thinking, 'Something's really wrong.'
He finally came on the pa system and said that he was finding it difficult to land and that he was going to try one more time and then divert to Boston. I just sat there, actually praying out loud saying, 'Please God, let him DIVERT to Boston now. Please don't let him try it one more time - just let him DIVERT to BOSTON! My son pulled his t-shirt up over his eyes (I don't think he wanted me to see how scared he was) my daughter slept through the whole thing, and I'll never forget two German girls sitting there laughing and talking (apparently oblivious to the whole thing- maybe they couldn't speak English and didn't understand).
Anyway, the whole plane was deathly quiet except for their chatter when he came in again for the landing and made it. It was only then I started crying. Relief...I'll never forget - this orthodox Rabbi from across the aisle just looked at me and took my hand and nodded at me saying, 'It's alright.'
The plane erupted in applause.
Ceili said:
Quote:I'm flying across the atlantic tomorrow. This is not news I welcome.
The next flight I had to take after that landing, I gave myself permission to drink three glasses of wine on the flight. It helped....maybe you should do that.
As for this - what a sad and terrifying tragedy for these people.