@vikorr,
My very best realisations about life in general are two:
1) I can't realistically experience anyone elses life but my own - so I try not to tell anyone anything about their life (in general).
2) In terms of my own life - my best and most freeing realisation has been to admit to myself that I don't really need to or even enjoy owning things or people-I'm much happier when I can experience them without claiming any sort of ownership.
(I was reading Farmermans thread title about the internet porn stings in Pennsylvania and entrapment and I misread it to say:
StRings = Entrapment
and I thought to myself - 'Hey, that's exactly how I feel!).