@JPB,
JPB,
Thanks for your response...especially your words about my kids. The real point of my post was the inability of my generation to formulate a convincing argument which would keep our children in the fold of Christianity. In our society today, our kids have mixed in their mind the true American doctrine that "all men are created equal" with the siren song that "all beliefs, pleasurable practices, and moral codes are also equal".
I would argue against your argument that "the demise of evangelical Christianity as the mother of the rampant Christian theocratic drive for political control in the US is a good thing." This is really a "whose ox was gored argument". In my opinion, advocacy for a society or Government run by rules that mesh well with your own personal opinions and beliefs is a good thing and should never be precluded by any other part of a democratic society. This principle holds whether your personal opinions and beliefs fall in the secular vein or Christian.
JPB wrote:Any group who wants to determine how someone not affiliated with that group should live it's life and have the laws of the land reflect those thoughts should be stopped at all cost.
This quote reflects where I think Christianity has often gone wrong. I think my primary concern is with the phrase "wants to determine". I'll use my own kids as an example...I am well within my bounds to be concerned how my daughter lives...I believe she shouldn't sleep with another before marriage, she shouldn't sleep with other women, she shouldn't abort babies and should go to church, etc. As you mentioned, this is what I think is best for her. For the exact same reason (because it is what I think best for them) I should be concerned for non-relatives, even strangers...even though I will have less influence on those folks. This is no different than others who abide by a different set of moral rules e.g. that one can sleep with whomever one wants or that abortion is a woman's inherent right. If one really believes that some thing or some practice is harmful to another, it would be disingenuous at best and hypocritical at least to allow another to proceed down that harmful path.
Unfortunately all too often Christians go overboard in their insistence that others must toe the party Christian line and in the end, turn off the very person they are trying to save. I am a strong believer in God's sovereignty and while I feel obligated to ensure my friends and neighbors understand my particular religious beliefs, I leave it to God to do the convincing and effect the ultimate conversion.