hawkeye10 wrote:Parents do not give up their responsibility for the well being of their kids when they send them to church. Parents are responsible for every moment until the kid turns into an adult. If the kid is harmed at church, and the parents knew and approved of what took place, then the parents are responsible, not the church.
I think if the parent or church knowingly allowed the child to be put in harm's way, each would be responsible and liable. I am in no way convinced that either the parents or the church would deem an exorcism to be harmful; in fact if they believe in demon possession, to not perform an exorcism could be perceived as negligent.
There is a religious group in southeastern New Mexico that runs a boarding school for troubled youth. On the campus grounds is an extremely tall wooden structure that is scalable, but with extreme difficulty. At some point, every child is encouraged to climb that structure to the top. Most don't make it on the first attempt, but almost all eventually do make it. Is there physical risk, opportunity for emotional distress, tort liability exposure? Yes to all. Is the extreme boost in confidence and self esteem of those kids who make it to the top worth it? The school thinks so.
Those same kids are closely monitored, required to do chores, are held accountable and do suffer appropriate consequences for mistakes and infractions of the rules, and must earn every advancement and privilege. Much of this is not the kid's idea and I doubt any authority gives consent to every single component that goes into turning these troubled young people into confident, capable, responsible human beings. Stuff is just assumed in that environment when the kid is placed there.
When my kid went to college, he was drafted onto a rowing crew before he turned 18. He was doing some rather vigorous training and being transported all over the place to meets and all without my signature or consent. But it was implied as a component of the college experience.
All this is to say that this is not a cut and dried issue as it first seems.