Chumly wrote:I would only go as far as saying it is in need of "serious hand wringing" in as much as its net effects both pragmatically and morally promote the potential downfall of mankind in a most obvious and direct fashion; not that I do not understand human nature.
I would certainly rank it higher than (for example) parents promoting their kids to steal small items such as chocolate bars.
What?! Parents
promoting their kids to steal small items? I have to say I find that troubling- very troubling - but I won't get off on that tangent as I know you were just coming up with something off the top of your head. Because I can see that scenario turning into something EXTREMELY troubling for society - in fact- it already has- and we're dealing with the effects of that interpretation of "if it doesn't impact me directly - I don't care how it impacts everyone else" in our society every day.
I don't think people who don't have children are genetically superior. In fact, many times it may speak to some (at least physical) genetic or chromosomal issue.
And I do think that someone has to take up the mantle of carrying the species forward - unfortunately there are way too many people unthinkingly willing to do that- but as someone (I forget who) mentioned, we'd be in even more of a pickle if everyone just said, "It's not my job to populate the earth...let someone else worry about that."
I agree Chumly - it is troubling that people think the only way they can parent is to produce their own offspring. And it does have an effect on all of us as all of our systems are and will continue to be overloaded (and I'm talking in society as a whole- nevermind the environment) if there's not more thought put into things.
But I have to say that I do look happily on every person who is born, however briefly I allow myself to do it before I start worrying about those who are already here (and I always do have that thought almost immediately after I express my delight at this new child, whoever he or she is) because it's just promise waiting to be expressed. You never know who or what that kid will turn out to be and what he or she might do for the world.
You have to have some hope...
*(How do you know what my face looks like when I don't know what yours looks like?)