Hi Francis, it seems you have misunderstood - my reply to you was just a play on words definitions/associations.
-Spirit is to Spirituality, as Spirit (Alcohol) is to .....
Hawkeye wrote:Science misses a lot....so what if science misses spirit??
Hi Hawkeye, my point was simply that you didn't appear to try to define spirit, which is what I was asking for
Quote:I don't remember who figured this out: we don't know anything about out selves by ourselves. we are too close to ourselves to see ourselves. All that we know about ourselves we learn by what is reflected back to us by those around us. This is for instance why those who have been abused and feel worthless pick mates who will abuse them, the victim sees themselves through the abuser as who they think they are, a victim. The abuser-victim relationship feels right to the victim. When a victim is with someone who does not see them as a victim (with a nonabuser) they don't see themselves through their mates, and the victim lost. The victim tries to make the non abuser into an abuser, and if that fails the victim leaves.
For the purpose of clarity, is spirit to you, our psychological state? By that I mean, from the above paragraph, combined with the one below it, you appear to be saying ?'The state of being a victim' is spirit?
Quote:SOOO, spirit is not a state of imagination because it is 100% known by interacting with the world around us. It is also not determined by us, I think all religions teach that our natures are God given or are with us at birth (genetics, chemical balance and so on not changeable by us). The condition of our state of being (spirituality) is determined by a combination of our nature (soul) and the extent to which we perfect our relationships, because it is by perfecting our relationships that we learn to see deeply into life. It is by perfecting our relationships that we learn who we are, what our nature is (if you are Zen).
A couple of questions for you from this paragraph :
1.You said that ?'spirit' is not determined by us. The reason you have given appears to be - ?'genetics, chemical balance and so on not changeable by us'. Is this what you meant?
2. What do you mean by ?'our nature/soul' - specifically what do you mean by ?'our nature', which you say means ?'our soul', and ?'our soul' sounds to me rather like ?'our spirit', which you say means ?'our state of being', which sounds to me somewhat like ?'our nature' (presumably I've got something wrong, because if not, I'm confused as the terms seem interchangeable from what I can work out of what you are saying, but you are using them as separate ideas)
Quote:Spirituality, our state of being, dances around the two poles of self awareness and relationships with other people. Self awareness and relationship are conpletely connected to each other. If you want to be good at one you have to be good at the other. This is why you find a spiritual person such as myself hanging out on the relationship forum. This is also why when ever a person is having a relationship problem the first thing we always do is to advise them to work on themselves.
I follow most of this, though for me the question still exists for what you think spirituality is - not saying you are wrong - just that I haven't fully understood what you think it is yet.