@Francis,
OGLING
'Oh George, look! It's Nellie's GIGOLO!
or
Ordinarily GIGOLO love is not gratis...
or
Obviously GIGOLOS love investing new gains.
(I'm very proud of this last one - it's a double entendre...do you get it?)
Spendius said:
Quote:It is a field well catered for by manufacturers and is popular with those who have become jaded with the usual procedure. I imagine that Googling Rubber Fetish will produce a raft of sites. It's part of the general Femdom bag of tricks which the Age of Aquarius is said to be cosmically engendering but evolutionists will vehemently deny that. They don't think life has any components they can't explain mechanically.
Well it was very interesting to think about from the stance that when I actually thought about it, I realized that none of these things are particularly NEW - they're just more out there now-due to the internet, etc...as you said, but what really was interesting to for me to think about was to wonder how someone first discovers their own particular fetish. You know - like underwear and men is an easy one - they see their mom's underwear and they get this tingly feeling and it goes on from there - but how do they discover this rubber thing? It's not like that's part of everyday life for most people - so what do they have to do- be dissatisfied and not really know why and then just test this, that, and the next fetish out until they say, BINGO - that's the one....I found it fascinating.
Quote:I think, though I have no experience of such things, that loss of ego and identity is the objective.
Yes, apparently this is the thing -
Quote:It allows the lady in the case to treat the sap as an object more easily. As "worthless" as Despina says all men are in Mozart's Cosi fan tutte which means "women are all alike". Dylan's "Baby can't be blessed till she sees finally that she's just like all the rest" is maybe inspired by that.
But it goes both ways - it's actually more about role playing instead of allowing one or the other to denigrate the individualism of the other. They said it allows each of them to 'BE' whoever they want/need to be.
What you're talking about with the denigration or dehumanization or de-individualization (if that's a word) of a person is more inherent in the fetish 'pony play'. Now THAT was wild. A man is a ringmaster and a woman is a pony with a bit in her mouth and everything - he leads her around in circles with his whip and feeds her apples - makes her trot, etc...

I'm dying of laughter right now even remembering it. This guy lives in Gloucester and provides this service for women who want to be ponies - oh my GOD - people are strange...
Quote:I presume it heightens skin sensitivity and tension and that the sap gets to meet the truly liberated woman in all her "ragin' glory". It's a libertine position and, as such, decadent. A sign of boredom with the unchaste female.
Again, they're both encased in the rubber. Have you ever worn a wet suit though - it's so uncomfortable. That's all I could keep thinking the whole time I was watching it...how uncomfortable.
Quote:I have heard of the rubber suit being inflated and the ball being suspended from the ceiling.
I have no idea what this means.
Anyway the word is GIGOLO or GIGOLOS (if the next participant so chooses).