Ditto impressive.
You are from the UK, as am I, so your second post is very relevant to a news article not so long ago. I think you capture it very well and recognise the pain caused to the whole family - the bigger picture.
Keep writing and getting the thoughts onto paper mate.
I don't know how old you are but you recognise also that bad can lead to bad - it doesn't have to to be that way and your words show that you can be true to you.
Always be true to you - never waiver for what you think you ought to be for others. Believe in what you do.
Your writing is worthy - you words have meaning - keep it up love. Keep posting.