@alex240101,
Baby's 8 months old..it's alive...it's kicking. I was pretty normal..a lill exhausted and sleepy by the end of eth day..which i thot was normal....
in 1 week...both of us couldnt realize that i had bloated...my tummy that is..had there been any symptoms..pain..visual diff we wouldve rushed to the doc..nothing..i was pretty fine...i just had itching probs and felt tht i had developed rashes..and went to see the doc..
she felt ive bloated..she checked and said .when im in my 31st week..thr growth shows to be in 34th week.
she gave me hopes..it might be excess of fluid that can b reduced with tablets ..
saturday morning ths was...went for a scanning ..
scanning showed fluid has filled the babys body..and kidneys have hydropsis..
normally if parents are of + & - they have solutions it seems..here we obth are positive,,
evening we met another specialist...she said....it usually comes as a sequel ths hydropsis..it cant be just i n the kidney..got to be elsewhere..
and if it is spread which she ssays shes sure of..considering the 5 cases in the pawst 15 years experience...she suggests...termination..
i know she wsa preparing me...but..im shattered..
its 8 months..i was counting in ma hand 63 days..
i got a baby wrap..cream in color..as a gift.
we had finalised on the names....for either boy or girl..as they dnt tell us the gender here..
pray for a miracle..they say god gives us only what we can bear..its beyond bearable..i had adjusted the fact that i dnt get a mothers care...now..wen i was almost ready for a similar relationship with ma bundle they say all ths..