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Euuuuuuuuuuuuw Mis! Glad the Prof came home and disposed of. Horrible for you hun " know how that will have upset you bigtime. My cat, Boz, who disappeared when we moved here, used to bring me half wabbit prizes throughout the summer. Nasty. Especially with underfloor heating! Ugh. I must admit tho " I can handle that tho it’s very unpleasant " but I still can’t get rid of a spider. At the moment we’re averaging 3-4 shrews, mice, boids a day with the kitties. I think with those things, that they are doing what comes naturally " and tho I love animals, I don’t tend to get upset any longer. I still have a potential problem with IKE, the falcon. I find falconry absolutely incredible and haven’t seen IKE fly yet " so when we start flying him after his moult, watching a kill (which kinda goes against the grain) is gonna be...... mmmmmm.... fascinating, natural " but maybe ugh too.
So........... went to bed earlier " felt terrible. Little fella been a star as always. He let me rest.
Then " G came over. Next minute " phone rings " OMGAWD " Gdaughter called here

She was livid - Someone had hit her car " big hit " she was not happy. She said she was coming over here as she couldn’t open the passenger door " I think she wanted some reassurance " understandable. Then she said “no” she wouldn’t come over. Fine. Then came over unexpectedly. <my jaw dropped and hit the ground " as I picked it up off the floor I found my smile in Eleanor Rigby’s jar by the door - slipped int on" so all was well>
We had huge shenanigans on Friday with B-girl " stamping feet must have worn a hole in her shoes and given her verra sore feet. Certainly wore our patience to breaking point and Dad finally put his foot down, kept it down and stopped pussy-footing around. She p-d off for the weekend (bliss), stomped again on Sunday nite and Monday refused to go to work. No-one bought into it. House rules are now well and truly defined " now we’ll see if she can act like an adult. She put S-boy and I in a very bad situation at G’s house " I’ve stated to G that if it ever happens again " she will get the Wilkinson Sword side of my tongue " it’s quite sharp and hasn’t been used for a while " so, she better leave a 12 year old out the equation and not expose him to vicious and emotionally damaging behaviour. S-boy is never to be forced into a similar situation again. If it does happen " we will not go there. S-boy has tolerated enough already with her demands and tantrums, R-boy was all but destroyed by them " maybe this weekend had to happen for G to finally use the backbone he has found and find some gumption.
Sort it... or don’t. I would like to believe he has sorted it. Kids are a package deal " if the adults can’t be consistent with the consequences of whatever the kids throw out " t‘aint going to work. G is fully aware of this now.
Maybe she finally “geddits”. She will not dictate my life or where and how I go, nor my sons " nor will she dictate her father’s life any more. So tonite was HUGE. She came here (actually, I’m quite proud of her) " clearly upset but she kept it under control " we got the tyre rim off and G managed to get the very large dent pushed out so that the door will open. Then " she came in the house " she wasn’t too comfortable " but did it. Talked. Even laughed! (would have no idea if it were a real laugh " but hey, any frown breaking from her scowling brow has gotta be a leap of B-kind!!!!!!!!! S-boy wittered away, as he does " breaking the “awqward” silences. S-boy, again, was just a star.
She wouldn’t leave without G and said she needed to follow him home " but that was fine " so they left after about an hour. So " could be a curve ball or a home run. Not sure which but going with ... little steps! We’re maybe at first base " but it’s a start. Reckon we’ve got a few more balls gonna be mashed over the next few weeks. Glad I’m a girlie!!!!
Since then " neighbour who is selling her house " bless her (has her furniture in my office at the moment) came over with her son, stayed for a while and has just left. 11pm.
Just taken my potion " feel my joints flaring " and got work in the morning. Body is hugely run down right now " fatigue is never ending. Going straight to the cinema tomorrow for an S-boy treat " Ice Age 3 " looking forward to it.
Have a huge storm going on right now " torrential rain " so loud on the conservatory roof.
Missy " so proud of you girlie " I know you are going to wonderful at this " you will teach well and those kdis " so lucky. Same pay, less hours.... YippiKiA!!!!!!!!!!! So very proud of you sweet Dixie. x
JPB " love you dear friend. Love seeing you here.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Potion kicking in............. I am on prattle mode. Sorry. Needed to talk........ beginning to falldown. Nearly midnite.
BAZZA " what ya got in 25/26th?????????????? July. Any visitors.... plans. Just have a thought.......... can yer let me know love. Xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Lovin; y;all miss you all on shoreleave xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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