Curly hair now is OK, I wouldn't object to it myself, I think me being a lad made me feel worse about. One of my sisters had a bit of a curl in her hair and she got away with it OK.
I couldn't have ironed mine, it just kept getting curlier and curlier, by the time the 60's came we got away with any style of hair and I let it grow.
It never grew below my shirt collar, curls got all the more tighter.