Quote:Answer these questions the best of your knowledge and tell how you came to any answer:
Quote:1) Fat guy eating a whole cake all at once
Is he in the right or wrong for doing that?
No, he's not wrong- especially not if he's really hungry, although he might regret doing that.
Quote:Is he in the right or wrong for being fat?
Wrong? No-but he's apparently making choices that are impacting himself and society negatively. I was in Wal-Mart the other day and I remarked to the person I was with that I see so many relatively young (some less than middle-age) people in America who are riding around in those motorized scooters who seem to be doing that because they are no longer able to be mobile because they are grossly obese. Of course I can't be sure that's their only problem, but I don't see any sign of stroke or muscle atrophy, so I assume that's what it is. It's incredible to me that people would give up mobility for food- but hey- that's almost what this society ENCOURAGES- and that's from infancy on.
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Quote:Gay guy looking at lesbian porn: Is he in the right or wrong for looking at lesbian porn since he is gay?
Who the hell cares what he looks at?
Quote:Is he in the right or wrong for being gay?
NO.
3)
Quote:Straight adult guy looking at teen porn so he can jack off: Is he in the right or wrong for looking at teen porn being an adult?
Why is there teen porn? Isn't that against the law?
Quote:Is he in the right or wrong for jacking off to it?
I guess it's how he meets his own particular and peculiar needs. Wrong as far as society goes- but right for him in some strange way. I think he'd be headed in a wrong and dangerous direction if this is true for him - I'd advise him to get help.
Quote:4) Some kind of person determines for everyone what is right and what is wrong: Is this person in the right or wrong for doing just that?
YES! This kind of person bugs me more than all of these other kind of people COMBINED!
Quote:5) Is it the person who can be right or wrong for what they do? Or is it what the person does that can be right or wrong?
I think people need to take responsibility for their actions- so yes- I think people can be wrong (or right) for doing what they do.
Quote:6) I'm telling you it is wrong for you to respond to this thread: Am I in the right or wrong for telling you that?
I'd be curious as to why you might tell me that- but I acknowledge that you can tell me whatever you feel like telling me- you just also have to acknowledge that the flip side of that is I can do whatever I feel like doing.
Quote:Do you feel you're in the right or wrong for responding after being told that?
I feel neutral about the situation.
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Quote:I dont care about you so f^ck you: Am I in the right or wrong for saying something truely honest as that to you?
How can that be honest? You don't even know who I am. Maybe you know me in real life and you do care about me.
I think it's degrading to our language though to use terms life f^ck more than occasionally- when they're really warranted by situation or emotion. Wrong? Maybe not- an unfortunate choice on a chronic and everyday basis? YES!
I'm glad you reposted this. I hadn't seen it before. Even if others felt it was wrong of you to do so, I found it interesting- and I'm always looking for things that are interesting - that's so much more right for me than boring and same old, same old- so thanks!
I was just talking about this subject with a student at lunch the other day. He's only 17- but he's really bright and interesting. We were talking about how some people- though they might be really similar in every other way to each other- seem drawn to the negative (wrong) while others seem drawn to the positive (right).
We were talking about how people (from the outside) might look really different from each other if you were only to base things on their final decisions which resulted in actions. But really - if you could see inside the decision making process- before the action- you might find that people are far more similar than you thought - it's only their final action that makes them appear so different.