In Victorian times people had covers made for table legs because "legs" were obcene. The flash of a ladies ankle was cause for gossip.
Boobs on show are just another body part. I'm guessing it would become like a Vag for a gynocologist - just another body part if they were on show all the time. We have created a culture where a woman exposing her breasts is obviously being sexual, or giving sexual signals.
If i was on a beach with my kids and some granny or bouncing 22 year old had her tits out, it wouldn't phase me at all or hopefully my kids, they're just another body part, Like a tummy or ankles.
If good healthy rumpy pumpy comes up in a movie or tv program its a part of most healthy relationships, why would i be embarrassed? I have no problem with my kids seeing me give mums bum a squeeze or my hand in her shirt for tummy rub. yep they do the "eeeewwwwww old people doing" or "
They're at it again" as if teenagers invented sex. They also see there is a right time and place. They see the love, care and respect that is attendant to a healthy relationship and that sex (kissing, touching) is part of that. No we dont go the grope or get nekkid in front of our kids, thats a private thing for just us to share.
I do see the need to respect other peoples attitudes to bodies sex and sexuality even if I think they're wrong.
So hearkening back to the original question of the 2 girls at the swimming pool. I personally see nothing wrong with women being topless however these girls should have some respect for those that don't have that attitude. I also see the only way to change peoples attitudes is to push the boundaries in a way that will inevitably confront some people.
Happycat I think your embarrassment
fosters a culture of giggling teenage boys (and girls) but i respect your attitude.
I'm a bit concerned about mames interest in ossos boobs though. I'd watch her if i was you osso.