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Are atheists different, based on his/her family's faith?

 
 
hankarin
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 01:26 pm
Why do athiests spend time on the spirituality and religion section of this forum? Are you seeking converts to your faith?
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Thomas
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 02:01 pm
hankarin wrote:
Why do athiests spend time on the spirituality and religion section of this forum? Are you seeking converts to your faith?

Speaking for myself, the answer is no. I am not seeking converts to atheism. I occasionally spend time here because I find religion and spirituality fascinating -- even though I don't have a religion.
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hankarin
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 02:04 pm
Speaking for myself, the answer is no.
It is a fascinating subject. Thank you! Anyone else?
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InfraBlue
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 07:20 pm
I spend time in this section 'cause this is where threads about atheism are placed.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 07:28 pm
I spent a bunch of years working my way out of theism, decades ago. I check in on this revolving cartwheel once in a while for amusement, and only post when driven to make a clarifying comment when people cast all atheism in some kind of basket. It gets boring after years here to repeat oneself, so I try not to.

There are past threads, folks. Go look.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 4 Sep, 2007 07:33 pm
To hankarin, some of the atheists/agnostics at a2k got there through religion and eventual leaving of it. That is, some can deal with any phrase of the bible and raise you.

But, you know, people have other things to do than argue forever, with yet another poster.

If you are actually interested, there are depths of discussion in our archives here.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 05:17 am
I missed this one the first time around. What about those of us who were raised by one previously-Jewish atheist and one previously-Christian atheist, huh? Huh? ;-)

I agree with the posts that mention culture as a central aspect of any difference. (If there is a difference -- what difference, exactly?) I've never been religiously Jewish, but I consider myself culturally Jewish in a lot of ways.

Another thing that comes to mind is a Jewish idea I came across at some point, that Judaism (the religion) is about "ask, ask, ask," while Christianity is about "obey, obey, obey." One can see how atheism would fit better with the former.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 07:16 am
sozobe wrote:
I missed this one the first time around. What about those of us who were raised by one previously-Jewish atheist and one previously-Christian atheist, huh? Huh? ;-)

Such an enormous degree of faith promiscuity is just disgusting. Get your disbeliefs straight, woman!

sozobe wrote:
(If there is a difference -- what difference, exactly?) I

This is a seriously fascinating question. I'd love to figure it out, but so far I haven't managed to get beyond "I know it when I see it" territory. For example, most of the ex-Jewish atheists I met were members of the Jewish community in Hannover, Germany. My Russian piano teacher and her Russian husband were members of it. They were both hard-core atheists, but they took advantage of claiming Jewish nationality so they could leave Russia for Israel. (The Soviet Union categorized Jews as a nationality.)

Because many "ethnic" Jews in Russia pulled off this trick, Russian atheists soon swamped the indigenous and faithful Jews in Hannover's Jewish community. To the dismay of the faithful, they basically used the community as a club for meeting fellow Russians. During my time in Hannover, I heard many classical music concerts, attended many after-concert parties (which you don't have in regular classical concerts), but not a single prayer. The faithful were hardly noticeable; the only reason they weren't was that before each concert, one of them gave a speech along the lines of: "We Jews are cultivated people, as the coming piano evening with professor X from Vienna will impressively show again. And this is exactly why we must stand by Israel as they fight those barbaric Palestinian terrorists. And now, enjoy the concert" There was a short, embarrassing "ick" moment; then professor X from Vienna entered the stage, started playing, and all was well again.

Let me dig myself out from under an overly long introduction by fast-forwarding to twenty years later. That's when I first read you describe some of your favorite "Seinfeld" episodes. Although I hadn't watched any episodes myself then, and still haven't, your description of the characters immediately triggered the knee-jerk reflex: "Hannover! Atheist Russians in Jewish community!" This knee-jerk reflex is why I'm pretty sure about the instinct by which "I know it when I see it".

Sozobe wrote:
Another thing that comes to mind is a Jewish idea I came across at some point, that Judaism (the religion) is about "ask, ask, ask," while Christianity is about "obey, obey, obey." One can see how atheism would fit better with the former.

Are you sure? I have often wondered how Jewish clergy react when you ask them about all those atrocious things God does in the Old Testament. Lutheran pastors predictably relied on the same cop-out. "Well, Jesus Christ eventually came along and upgraded all that, so don't you worry." Jewish theologians don't have that cop-out, so I'm at a loss trying to imagine how they'd respond, except "oh, shut up and don't monday-morning-quarterback your creator's work". Could you simulate a probable answer for me?
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sozobe
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 07:23 am
This really, really isn't my area -- since my dad was all atheist 'n' stuff and I never met my grandpa I really have only my grandma to go by -- but with her, she LIKED my questions. She'd get all het up and answer strongly, but she enjoyed the dialogue and seemed to think that it was a legitimate thing to think about -- that it was better to question than to blindly accept. She didn't brush aside my questions, she answered them. (Some I found satisfactory, some I didn't. In particular, I appreciated that she saw many religious stories as metaphors and guides rather than something literal.)

The Torah is basically the Old Testament and then approximately 2,000 years of arguing about it.

Or maybe that's the Talmud. The continuing arguing I'm more sure of.
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Thomas
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 07:54 am
From your description, I like your grandmother a lot!

And you're right about the arguing. It's something that's just not done by us ex-Lutherans! Razz

Seriously, one typical thing I remember is that these people were super-generous. One of the reasons these post-concert-parties were a hit for me were the Jewish/Israeli specialties they served there. Evening after evening, I would go to the buffet and try out some new Jewish pastry. If I liked it, my eyes would beam. (What can I say? I'm a sweet tooth, which is one reason diabetes really sucks for me.) Immediately after my eyes would beam, someone would shoot towards me from behind a table and say: "Good evening, boy, you like my <insert Hebrew pastry name>?" (I nod, mouth full.) "Well go ahead, don't be shy, take a whole box! And don't forget to try this, this, and this too." They'd do this for total strangers. This is something that might have happened at a Lutheran community concert once in a while. But in the Jewish community, they were almost always like that.
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hankarin
 
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Reply Wed 5 Sep, 2007 02:05 pm
That is, some can deal with any phrase of the bible and rais
Sorry ossobuco, I don't understand your wording here. The Bible wasn't written for everyone, (2 Timothy 3:16, 17) and arguing about what the Bible says is not my favorite way of using my time. I enjoy discussing the Bible with those who want to do so, but in an open forum certainly everyone is free to comment and voice their opinion, even as I myself have done.
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Mame
 
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Reply Sat 8 Sep, 2007 09:18 am
I love visiting churches and cemeteries and have done so all over Europe. While I don't believe in a god or gods, I admire and wonder at other people's dedication to their ideals and faiths.
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averner
 
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Reply Tue 11 Sep, 2007 11:59 pm
of course they are different, different religions often means different cultures, and culture plays a big role in determining what people are like
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hankarin
 
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Reply Fri 14 Sep, 2007 06:10 pm
ossobuco wrote:
I spent a bunch of years working my way out of theism, decades ago. I check in on this revolving cartwheel once in a while for amusement, and only post when driven to make a clarifying comment when people cast all atheism in some kind of basket. It gets boring after years here to repeat oneself, so I try not to.

There are past threads, folks. Go look.


Does "this revolving cartwheel" of spirituality & religion now belong "in some kind of basket?"
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hankarin
 
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Reply Fri 14 Sep, 2007 06:17 pm
Are atheists different, based on his/her family's faith?

I would think that athiests (as individuals) are different and that their reasons for being athiests are varied due to culture and circumstances.

A different question might be: Are their differences in athiesm?
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cicerone imposter
 
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Reply Fri 14 Sep, 2007 06:46 pm
I've always been the yellow sheep of our family. We started out as Buddhists, then our mother converted to Christianity, and we were suddenly going to a christian church. What I saw in this one branch of Christianity were dogma that I viewed as discrimination, and it turned me off to "Christianity." While in the military service, I attended Catholic and protestant services - just to be with friends. When I attend any religious service, I bow my head out of respect, not because I "believe."

I'm the only atheist from my side of the family; all my siblings are Christians married to Christians. I married a Buddhist from a Buddhist family. I just don't believe in any religion or gods. I still have arguments with my siblings about religion and politics, because they're all republicans and I'm an independent.

Our family is made up of many cultures today; you name em, we probably got em. James Mitchener calls us the "Golden People." ha ha

Yeah, the yellow sheep, and I can live with that.
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Foofie
 
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Reply Sat 15 Sep, 2007 07:14 am
Thomas wrote:
sozobe wrote:
I missed this one the first time around. What about those of us who were raised by one previously-Jewish atheist and one previously-Christian atheist, huh? Huh? ;-)

Such an enormous degree of faith promiscuity is just disgusting. Get your disbeliefs straight, woman!

sozobe wrote:
(If there is a difference -- what difference, exactly?) I

This is a seriously fascinating question. I'd love to figure it out, but so far I haven't managed to get beyond "I know it when I see it" territory. For example, most of the ex-Jewish atheists I met were members of the Jewish community in Hannover, Germany. My Russian piano teacher and her Russian husband were members of it. They were both hard-core atheists, but they took advantage of claiming Jewish nationality so they could leave Russia for Israel. (The Soviet Union categorized Jews as a nationality.)

Because many "ethnic" Jews in Russia pulled off this trick, Russian atheists soon swamped the indigenous and faithful Jews in Hannover's Jewish community. To the dismay of the faithful, they basically used the community as a club for meeting fellow Russians. During my time in Hannover, I heard many classical music concerts, attended many after-concert parties (which you don't have in regular classical concerts), but not a single prayer. The faithful were hardly noticeable; the only reason they weren't was that before each concert, one of them gave a speech along the lines of: "We Jews are cultivated people, as the coming piano evening with professor X from Vienna will impressively show again. And this is exactly why we must stand by Israel as they fight those barbaric Palestinian terrorists. And now, enjoy the concert" There was a short, embarrassing "ick" moment; then professor X from Vienna entered the stage, started playing, and all was well again.

Let me dig myself out from under an overly long introduction by fast-forwarding to twenty years later. That's when I first read you describe some of your favorite "Seinfeld" episodes. Although I hadn't watched any episodes myself then, and still haven't, your description of the characters immediately triggered the knee-jerk reflex: "Hannover! Atheist Russians in Jewish community!" This knee-jerk reflex is why I'm pretty sure about the instinct by which "I know it when I see it".

Sozobe wrote:
Another thing that comes to mind is a Jewish idea I came across at some point, that Judaism (the religion) is about "ask, ask, ask," while Christianity is about "obey, obey, obey." One can see how atheism would fit better with the former.

Are you sure? I have often wondered how Jewish clergy react when you ask them about all those atrocious things God does in the Old Testament. Lutheran pastors predictably relied on the same cop-out. "Well, Jesus Christ eventually came along and upgraded all that, so don't you worry." Jewish theologians don't have that cop-out, so I'm at a loss trying to imagine how they'd respond, except "oh, shut up and don't monday-morning-quarterback your creator's work". Could you simulate a probable answer for me?


I don't believe the Seinfeld episodes were "supposed" to be depicting Jewish atheists. In the U.S., many Jews that are second or third generation born in the U.S. have moved away from the orthodoxy of the grandparents that came to the U.S. in the late 19th century, or very early 20th century.

So, the first generation born in the U.S. often became "Conservative" Jews which allowed for a more assimilated lifestyle (only wore a skullcap in synagogue, not all day). Their children (Seinfeld's generation) often moved farther from the fold, in that they became Reformed Jews (can "drive" to services on the Sabbath and don't have to adhere to the dietary laws), or just thought of themselves as "cultural/ethnic" Jews, without practicing a religious adherence.

While the Jewish post WWII immigrants to the U.S. tended to be orthodox, of even Chassidim (they follow a Rebbe, wear the black garb of their faith), the bulk of U.S. Jews reflect the immigration from Czarist Russia back between 1880 and 1910, or thereabouts, and that's the Seinfeld population.

These are the American Jews that go to out-of-town college and might marry a Christian, since they may have very little identification with their faith or ethnicity. But, even amongst those that do identify with some degree of Jewish belief and ethnic identity, it is often not what drives their lives. What might really make a lot of these Jews still Jewish is that they do not, for the most part, have any feeling for Jesus (as the center of Christian belief), other than being an historical figure.

There are some (not many I believe by percentage) that have joined Jews for Jesus, and believe they are Jewish and believe Jesus is their Messiah. That group I believe has ties to an evangelical Christian denomination.

Many non-practicing Jews, of the genre I described above (Seinfeld types) think of themselves as Jews from an ethnic point of view and do believe there is a God. They, therefore, are not atheists, just non-practicing Jews. They feel Jewish, the way, perhaps, Germans feel German, but Germans also feel European (Germany is in Europe). And these non-practicing Jews feel Jewish, but feel that that ethnicity does not take away from feeling American. One is an ethnic feeling, the other is a national feeling, I believe.

In the U.S. there are very few people (by percentage I believe) that are truly atheists, regardless if they come from Jewish or Christian backgrounds. Many people from either background just feel there's a God, and he doesn't really get involved with us humans much these days. This attitude makes for an easy interaction between people, since once we get past the religious labels, many really believe the same thing. This is all only my opinion, so it can be argued, but I'd rather not.
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real life
 
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Reply Wed 17 Oct, 2007 10:57 am
Coolwhip wrote:
Ok then. It's the socialist paradise on earth; Norway. Pop 4.7 million and maybe a few hundred jews in total I think.


More news from the socialist paradise

from http://www.aftenposten.no/english/local/article2050710.ece


Quote:
Debate flies over 'sex play' in kindergartens
A specialist in early childhood education in Oslo is giving new meaning to the term "sexual games," and stirring widespread debate.

Norwegians woke up Tuesday morning to news that a respected Oslo pre-school teacher, backed by child psychologists, thinks children should be allowed to openly express their own sexuality, not least through sex play and games in the local day care centers known as barnehager, or kindergartens.

The vast majority of Norwegians send their children from the age of one to the kindergartens, where they spend their days until they begin school at age six.

Pia Friis, leader of the popular Bjerkealleen Barnehage in Oslo and a well-known pre-school educator, told newspaper Dagbladet on Tuesday that children should be allowed to express their own sexuality at day care centers. She doesn't want to stifle what comes naturally.

Children, she said, should be able "to look at each other and examine each other's bodies. They can play doctor, play mother and father, dance naked and masturbate.

"But their sexuality must also be socialized, so they are not, for example, allowed to masturbate while sitting and eating. Nor can they be allowed to pressure other children into doing things they don't want to."

Friis said there's a lot of uncertainty around how day care center employees should handle children's sexuality.

"The only thing that is absolutely certain is that children, sooner or later, will play sexual games and examine each other at the kindergarten," she told Dagbladet. "When the personnel are uncertain, that passes on to the children, and it can be negative."

The issue is the topic of an article in the latest edition of the magazine published by Norway's industry association for privately owned kindergartens, PBL-nytt, and Friis thinks it's important. So do child psychologist Thore Langfeldt and family therapist Jesper Juul.

"Children must learn about sexuality, otherwise things can go very wrong," said Langfeldt. "Children can't object to something they don't know about, and children can more easily and readily report assaults if they already are aware of their own sexuality."

Juul conceded that "many are disturbed by children's sexuality, but I think it's important to put it on the agenda. That, in fact, is what we're doing."

While Norwegians are known for being liberal and tolerant, the issue already has sparked heated debate on radio programs and in online opinion forums. And some politicians are outraged, not least those on the conservative side.

"I thought at first that this was a joke," said Karin Ståhl Woldseth, a spokesman on family issues for the Progress Party.

"Sexual games don't belong in a kindergarten," she declared. "Children don't need more exposure to this in kindergartens. We think it will damage their health."

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Thomas
 
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Reply Wed 17 Oct, 2007 11:04 am
real life wrote:
More news from the socialist paradise

from http://www.aftenposten.no/english/local/article2050710.ece

You've got a problem with the news?
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tinygiraffe
 
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Reply Wed 17 Oct, 2007 11:21 am
insert trek joke here
they would have been outraged by dr. spock as well, even if he was one of the most respected experts on child-rearing in this country's (u.s.) history.

and spock wasn't the only one. we're not exactly talking about kindergarten brothels, here- but certainly things that would never fly in salt lake city, utah.
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