Re: A question for a friend.
Here are some quotes from the Tao Te Jing which speak to at least part of your cousin's ideas.
from the Tao Te Jing - 1
The unnamable is the eternally real.
Naming is the origin
of all particular things.
Free from desire, you realize the mystery.
Caught in desire, you see only the manifestations.
Yet mystery and manifestations
arise from the same source.
This source is called darkness.
NNY wrote:Every man has within him good and evil, but it is the man who decides which shall shine through. But the ultimate measure of a man is the measure of respect others have for him and he has for others.
from the TTJ - 5
The Tao doesn't take sides;
it gives birth to both good and evil.
The Master doesn't take sides;
she welcomes both saints and sinners.
from the TTJ - 8
When you are content to be simply yourself
and don't compare or compete,
everybody will respect you.
NNY wrote:
The chase of gain is rich in hate. This life offers many questions but few answers. But the object of life is to find answers and happiness. Happiness is often found, but answers are far more elusive.
from the TTJ - 2
Therefore the Master
acts without doing anything
and teaches without saying anything.
Things arise and she lets them come;
things disappear and she lets them go.
She has but doesn't possess,
acts but doesn't expect.
When her work is done, she forgets it.
That is why it lasts forever.