Help Needed on Marlboro Contest V

My day has been OK so far, but that can change quickly.
Why would your daughter do that?

Since she came to court and lied I have told her that she is prohibited from seeing me for a 2 month period. After she was here and tried to steal my cd's from the house without asking permission to take them. This happened during her half the summer visit . I fell down the stairs taking her home and I reached for the railing and the bags hit the stairs and stinking cd's that she was given permission to use here but not to take fell all over the floor.
God I feel so used and emotionally withdrawn it's become supercilious and abased.

In 1993 I saw a pa angler magazine and it stated that nearly half the children in our society would be being raised by single moms or dad's.
This is why I started the fishing club along with 150 other members.
I never thought that I would uncover this much of a mountain of trash,
much less much less smell such a foul stench, and I have been a garbage man in my life twice. But this blows that away to the very pit of my stomach and the very core of my heart!!
Biased has been proven

Time to run see you in the AM.

TTFN Uncle.

I wanted to stop by and say hi. I have been spending the last few days and nights at the hospital. Skuncle and bigred, I just read your posts.

I did what I felt is right. My dad will be buried where he wanted to. I have been sleeping in ICU during the night and staying during the day too. I just came home to take a shower before I go back. My sisters and brothers are not speaking to me but, it is their loss. I did what I felt I had to.

Good for you TTH.

Thanks bigred
My heart feels broken. I told my dad if I could take his place I would, but I can't. Tonight will be my last night with him. I will keep talking to him because he does open his eyes and he does nod. I don't want him to be alone.

I told my family that he opens his eyes and nods and they called me a liar. He only has done this with me in the room. I got a piece of paper and pen and I held the paper and he wrote things down. It is his hand writing and the nurse stood outside and saw it all. She told my family I was not lieing.

Why in the world would I lie about something like that. I am so angry and hurt they even accused me of this. My one brother said I was wasting my time and dad died last week as far as he is concerned. So, I am going to leave now and spend the last night in ICU with my dad. I told my dad I won't leave him alone and I will keep my word.

You all take care because I will be gone for a few days. I am logging off now to go back to the hospital.

Take care TTH. don't get to down on the family. :wink:

Good morning everyone.

afternoon Uncle Time to get back to the rebellion

Good afternoon Red, Give'em h***.

Should I give them the salt or the he** Fir@ wow now I am a fire breathing dragon

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I am not sure that I am doing this right , But I do remember similar circumstances when I was her age, and my mother just did not talk to me for a month or two. Then when I was 15, I blew off going to counseling just like my daughter will try to do. Now come's the real play and they are the ones being played.
Up until this point My ex mom in law and my ex wife weren't talking.
And I lied to my daughter, on purpose, fight fire with fire I always say and when the other side thinks that they have beat you at their game, the best defense is a great offense It's called the old switcharoo. as in turn the tables. bounces off me and sticks to you. they think that they are manipulating me. but now ex wife and ex motherinlaw are back to talking and that family is together after 3 1/2 years of non communication.

I win because I never mattered to begin with
Make the ties that bind stronger where they are weakest!
even if it take reverse sicology,know what I mean!! and besides we needed the break anyway. I do have to go and getr her some clothes, She only wants jeans, till we get to the store!
Grandmom said my daughter was smarter than me boy was she right

Well folks I'm going home.
I'm gone next week and I have to be in Montreal the following Monday, so I will catch up with you on the 28th.
Red, keep the homefires burning.
TTH you and your family will continue to be in my prayers, be strong.
You two play nice.
See ya soon.

TTFN Uncle take care.
and Have a good trip.

Just wanted to let you guys know my dad died.

I am sorry TTH that someone so close to you has passed away but I know that he's in a better place I shall say some prayers for him tonight. I am sorry for your loss and the bereavement you must be enduring. I also offer my condolences to the rest of your family even though ya'll may be at odds.

I am not at odds with my family. This has been a long time coming. I will overlook the "have a great weekend" that you wrote to me.
I feel that was inappropriate right now.

I rather all of you have a nice weekend and I do mean that with sincerity.
Right now I want to spend some time with my dog and cat. I might be back another day. I don't know yet.

Enjoy your time with your cat and dog TTH, hopefully they aren't to busy partying with the neighbors pets! Our pets always seem to know how to comfort us the most when we need their companionship. :wink: