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Tips on saving money.

 
 
Montana
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 03:45 pm
Chai wrote:
I buy everything on credit cards too, for the points. I don't buy more stuff just because I'm not using cash.

I often hear that, about being more likely to spend more, but I wonder how true that is. I've never actually heard somebody tell me they've done that. Sometimes I stock up if it's an item I use on a regular basis, but that just means I spend less on that thing the next month.

I mean for the card that someone uses for monthly expenses, that gets paid off every month.

I do carry credit card debt, like when I bought my last car, I immediately paid it off with a credit card offer to transfer the balance with no fee, and 0% interest for a year.


I've also heard the cautionary tale of moving balances around for various offers, and how that effects your credit score, but I haven't seen proof of that either. I have been transfering balances for about 15 years from one card to another for a 0% for a year here and 0% for 18 months there. I think I've only paid a transfer fee of like $59 once, twice at the most, and am sure I have not paid more than $100 of interest in all those years. Probabaly closer to $50. The oldest credit card I have, since college days, I used for a big transfer a few years back...0% for the life of the balance. I don't carry that card around with me so I won't use it by accident. I have 2 other balances at 0% for the life of the balance, one for me, one for Mr. Tea, as long as I make 2 purchases a month on each of those cards. So, at the beginning of each month, I use my card to make 2 purchases of $2.00 of gas, same with his....I'm paying less that $5 a month total interest on that, and will be the next cards I pay off.

This spending wasn't for running out and buying clothes and vacations. It was for a car and remodeling our house, both of which we had to do.


Same here. I never spend more by using my card and am always looking for ways to save, which is why I pay it off monthly, except for the house car credit line and I see you've got that going on as well :-D

I shop at the local thrift shop, so I'm not looking to feed other peoples wallets Laughing

I know, I cheap Laughing
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 03:46 pm
Linkat wrote:
CalamityJane wrote:
Pay cash for everything and try not to use credit cards at all.
You budget a lot better if you deal in actual cash. Even when you
pay off your credit card at the end of the month, you're most likely
spending more money this way.


I guess it also depends on how much self control you have.

However, if you use your credit card for necessities rather then extras it works. If you want a special night out, for example take out your budgeted cash and then use that. If you pay your regular bills and other normal expenses - gas, grocercies, etc. and not the extra perks.


I agree :-D
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 03:52 pm
Bella Dea wrote:
Write down everything you spend in one month. You will be astounded at what you spend your money on and how much you spend on things you don't need.


I think you'd be very surprised on how little I spend monthly by chasing the best deals on everything from food to houses and by cutting coupons, the points thing, gardening, canning, u-picks, etc....

I know, I'm of a rare breed Cool
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 03:53 pm
Linkat wrote:
When you want to go out for a few drinks - deck yourself up - go to a bar that usually has lots of desperate men. Sit your self down, buy yourself one drink and from there men will ask you if you want a drink.

Then when you are ready to leave excuse yourself to the ladies room and sneak out (otherwise they try to get pay back for the drinks in other ways).


Been there Laughing
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 03:54 pm
FreeDuck wrote:
When you need big ticket items, look for used ones in good condition on craigslist. We bought a pretty nice bed that way and are currently looking there for a dining table.


Cool, thanks Ducky :-D
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 04:02 pm
Ebay is also one of my most favorite places to shop as well. I recently bought a box of temporary hair color at my local drug store for $10+15% sales tax putting my final cost at $11.50 (got my points) and since I liked the product (not the color RED Shocked ), I decided to check out ebay to see what they had for normal colors.
I found 4 colors I liked with the same seller (saves on shipping if buying several items from same seller) and I got them for $22 Canadian, which includes the shipping from the US. I paid less than half price ;-)

Damn, I'm good Laughing
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Chai
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 06:08 pm
Yeah, montana, I don't spend a lot either, not because I'm cheap, but I just don't get a big thrill out of whatever it is I can buy for $5 here and $5 there.

I always see suggestions like "stop going to Starbucks". I THINK I bought a cup of coffee there once. I know I've bought coffee there as a gift for someone....that's about it.

I really don't get driving somewhere to buy a cup of coffee, when I have a perfectly good coffee maker, and Maxwell House at my house. Guess I'm not some gourmet, I think it tastes just swell.

Yeah, yeah...the social factor....well, if I want coffee, it's to wake up, which means I'm not fully awake....meaning I don't feel social.

Or buying books. When I finish a book, I don't want to read it again, why should I spend lots of money for something I can get for free at the library? What if the book you want to read is unavailabe? Well God forbid you have to wait. When I've had to wait for the chance to borrow a particular book, it increases my delight...waiting to get it in my hands. Wheee....it's here! it's here! Also, I've read plenty of books that, if I had to pay for it, would've been pissed.

I'm not into knick knacks sitting round the house. I have things I bought because I really really liked them, and could see myself looking at them for many years.

Standing in line at a store, I never get the impulse to buy a magazine, gum, some silly gadget or holiday crap, like a light up Valentine bear or something. If someone suggested it, I'd say "what the hell would I do with that crap?"

For me, jewelry does nothing for me. I mean, what are you supposed to do, put on a ring and stare at your finger all day? Guess I don't get the satisfaction of that....it's just one more thing.

I live a pretty simple life, but it's rich in peace.

I guess the secret of not spending too much is being busy enjoying what you've already got.
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Montana
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 06:35 pm
Wow Chai!!! You just described me Shocked



That's kinda scary Laughing
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Chai
 
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Reply Tue 17 Jul, 2007 08:26 pm
Montana wrote:
Wow Chai!!! You just described me Shocked



That's kinda scary Laughing
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Montana
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 06:15 am
Laughing
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 06:18 am
hey you two

you dont corner the market in being chin-sey fuckers.. Im there too ya know Laughing
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Montana
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 06:21 am
Everyone is welcome in the cheap group, so come on in and make yourself at home.

Would you like a cup of fresh brewed coffee? Got a huge can of Mother Harpers coffee for $3.99 a few weeks back :-D
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Bella Dea
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 06:33 am
Montana wrote:
Bella Dea wrote:
Write down everything you spend in one month. You will be astounded at what you spend your money on and how much you spend on things you don't need.


I think you'd be very surprised on how little I spend monthly by chasing the best deals on everything from food to houses and by cutting coupons, the points thing, gardening, canning, u-picks, etc....

I know, I'm of a rare breed Cool


Most people aren't like that. $3.32 here, $8.56 there, $4.85 there....it adds up quicker than most people think.
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Montana
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 06:43 am
I know, I use to be one of those until I had my son and I had no choice but to cut back and now that he's grown, I'm so use to cutting back, it's become a competition with myself to see how much I can save Laughing

Unlike when my son was little, I have more to work with now and I save all my pennies for stuff that I want or need (which I find on sale, of course).


So, when is that baby coming? You must be in the "I feel like I'm going to explode" stage right about now Laughing

Sorry Bella, I couldn't resist Laughing
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Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 07:41 am
Also, if you want to purchase a new item (or even used), try doing a search on Amazon.com. My daughter wanted the new Kidzpop. It was advertised on TV and said it couldn't be purchased in stores. I forget how much it was exactly, but I did a search on Amazon and found it for at least $10 less, including the price of shipping.

I have also found used books that were no longer in print. The good thing about amazon I found was that you get a list of several sellers and can compare prices and shipping costs to get the best deal. I would also suggest reading about the sellers reputation as many items are sold from a third party - not actually amazon.

Here is a great one, I recently saw in a news report - haven't tried it yet myself, but plan on it. If you love to read, like CDs, DVDs or video games - there is a new website that is FREE to trade these items. Swaptree.com. They make money through advertisers. Basically the premise is you sign up, list books, CDs, etc you no longer want and also list the items you want. The website then matches you up with someone that wants your item and has the item you want. All items are considered to have equal value. All you pay is for the shipping. Really neat idea. Supposedly they are thinking to expand to other items.

Actually I think I will try it out today at lunch. www.swaptree.com
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Chai
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 08:13 am
Bella (boy I'm having sympathy bloat for you...I can't imagine what you feel like)

I sure don't want to start and argument (not with how things are going on other threads, sheesh, which I won't mentioned expect it's about babies on airplanes), I just want to make an observation.

When you say most people aren't like that, meaning 2 dollars here 4 dollars there, and not realizing how it adds up....I really don't know that most people really are like that.

Now, I'm in no way saying it's a character defect or something, the not realizing at the end of the week how much you've spent. I just don't know that it's all that common...maybe I'll start a poll, would be interesting.

I think there's a lot of people, maybe most, maybe not, who could tell you what they've bought over the last week, and not knowing exactly to the penny, could give a close estimate what they've bought.

I always hear we're so busy and we don't think. Well, no matter how busy I've been, I've never walked into a place in a fugue and spent 5, 10, 15 dollars without realizing I was buying something. If we're able to remember details at work to get a project done, or to make that phone call, or email so and so...it's no different to remember what you've bought in the last several days.

Part of me just doesn't buy that. I think there's a whole bunch of reasons people spend too much, or foolishly.

Some people may really not be remembering what they've bought during the week (in that case, how important was that stuff really?)

Then there's the "high" people get by aquisition. That's a book in intself.

Then there's those that spend money on others, but at their expense. A few years ago, my boss and I were working out of a clinic in another town. We were there about a year. The secretary there was one of these people.
OK, she was diabetic....insulin. Over Christmas, she bought my boss this present, not to brown nose, but because she really thought the boss would like it...cost her $60 bucks. We found out the next day, when the secretary fell ill, that she bought the present, fully knowing she wouldn't have enough for her insulin.
My boss, a nurse, was livid that she put a gift over her insulin. I was pissed too.
But, for some reason, the act of giving mattered more than here health.

Anyway, that's off the subject, just thinking about reasons people spend.

I also think about how much people waste.
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Montana
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 09:59 am
Last time I went to a club (2 years ago) I spent $60 in 3 hours Shocked



I said "never again" and I haven't gone since. Things run through my head like "I could have eaten for 3 1/2 weeks on that"! Laughing

My mother laughs at me when I tell her that I can eat healthy and good for $2.50 a day and even less if I was truly obsessed Laughing

Actually, I cut back wherever I can because there are things I want in life like things I'm doing in my house, yard and I wanted a decent car.
I worked very hard for my home, it's my world and I want to give it a beautiful face lift made just to fit me.
This is costly, but by watching my pennies and doing the work myself, I am able to do it little by little.
After that's done, I just may be ready for a personal face lift along with a tuck here and there Laughing

I think it also depends on how important things are to people. I guess some people prefer to live with going out to clubs, spend money on the tabloids, etc, than what I prefer.
People think I'm a hermit because I barely go out other than to work and shop, but I stay home most of the time because I love it here.


Someone mentioned books and I get my books at yard sales for about 10 cents each. Who would have guessed Laughing
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material girl
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 10:07 am
My way is ..if I really want something and it costs money...I dont buy it.

Or shop around, find the same thing in different places and notice the big price difference.

Cant beleive my will power this month-Usually I spend £200, only £50 this month!!!
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Chai
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 10:09 am
wow, this really is scary.

I love being in my home too.

I mean, Wally and I have spent years fixing it up the way we want it, saving money and trying to be smart with how we pay it off.

There's no place I'd rather be at my comfy house.

Oh, I go out for walks and stuff, I'm not a recluse. Like you I go and buy the stuff I need and come home.

Sometimes when I'm out I see all these cars with all these people driving all around and I think...."WHERE are all these people going?"

You know what? It would be interesting to pick a likely vehicle, and follow it around all day, just to see what I'm missing.

I have a feeling it would be driving from one store to another, staring at stuff....zzzzzzz..... Booooorrrrrrrring......
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Wed 18 Jul, 2007 01:07 pm
To get to the Shoebox rack at the back of the local Hallmark Card Shop, I have to pass mountains of Unseemly Stuff--at least half of which is mass produced love tokens or memory anchors.

Culture shock.

I shop for birthday cards only two or three times a year to spare my aesthetic sense.
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