Thu 17 Mar, 2005 07:05 am - This might be a rather long post. The first part is what I wrote upon returning from the counseling appt. The second is what happened later in the night. Know that I am emotionally beaten up and... (view)
Tue 15 Mar, 2005 06:33 am - He drilled me last night to find out if I was going with him or not. I said no, that we were not a healthy/happy couple, that I was not going to put on a facade, and that I needed time away from... (view)
Mon 14 Mar, 2005 01:16 pm - Debra_Law,
I will go over to that site tonight; at work it's a bit difficult. As for when I know it's time, I feel it's now. Then again, I'm very bitter and very angry.... (view)
Sun 13 Mar, 2005 07:28 pm - I have an update. And thank you debra_law for the insight.
This morning--after a series of arguments--he said he'd rather pay for a divorce than counseling and adamantly refused to go.... (view)
Fri 11 Feb, 2005 12:31 pm - Miklos,
Thanks for the vote of confidence. No, I don't think my anxiety issue is the fault here since it is so under control.
[quote]Think positively and confidently; you've got it... (view)
Fri 11 Feb, 2005 10:04 am - I, again, thank you all for your insights and posts. :D
I made a decision last night: I'm preparing for the worst (divorce) by getting my finances in order and setting up ways to protect... (view)
Thu 10 Feb, 2005 11:54 am - This is getting very difficult... :(
[quote]------------------------------------------------------------------------Zelanicat, May I ask why you and your husband had three months of pre-marital... (view)
Wed 2 Feb, 2005 12:17 pm - [quote]A verbal abuser will want to control your life, even in tiny ways. That's a key to whether he's an abuser or just insecure: An abuser will try to control you, to have everything... (view)
Mon 31 Jan, 2005 02:27 pm - [quote]Nobody else has mentioned this, but this pattern, of being fantastically charming before marriage and very moody & critical afterwards, is typical of an abuser. He's never been... (view)
Mon 31 Jan, 2005 08:43 am - Hello and thanks to all who posted. I would have responded sooner, but I couldn't log on from my home puter? oh well...
I intended to respond to this question first, though I have a... (view)
