Tue 23 May, 2006 03:01 am - Yeah distance would definitely be the ideal solution. Not that easy though. I'll put the rest into practice and see how it goes. Thanks! (view)
Mon 22 May, 2006 07:28 am - Well things are generally going much better already. I'm getting quite excited about the idea of having a child!
I am finding that my initial issue, the crush, is still apparent as much as... (view)
Tue 16 May, 2006 02:56 am - Yeah, where I am it would be pretty unusual not to. I think it can work either way but you're making more of an informed choice if you have spent some time living together. No nasty surprises.... (view)
Tue 16 May, 2006 01:41 am - By saying how I felt about where I was in the marriage, I was doing exactly that. The details, as in anything regarding the crush, were left out. My own feelings on the crush, how it relates to... (view)
Sun 14 May, 2006 04:49 am - Yeah, I'm glad we talked rather than just holding it in. I can see Whodathunk's point and I think, had this not got to me in the way it did and had pregnancy not come into it, maybe I... (view)
Sat 13 May, 2006 12:43 pm - Well we just had a good talk. After an initial upset, we got a few things out. What made it harder was that it seems this was entirely one-way in that her feelings are as strong as they have ever... (view)
Sat 13 May, 2006 09:46 am - No, it wasn't out of the blue in that it we were entirely open to having a child but not necessarily going out of our way to make it happen, if you get my meaning.
Having a child is one of... (view)
Sat 13 May, 2006 07:29 am - Thanks J_B, the words of support mean a lot. Yep, I think you're both right - some of this needs to be talked out.
And you're right about the peaks and valleys. Maybe I've been... (view)
Sat 13 May, 2006 07:24 am - Yeah, maybe I should talk to her just on a sort of general questioning basis. Although I'm not really sure what that might do - as far as I can see, it is entirely me who has a problem here.... (view)
