Mon 15 Sep, 2003 09:38 am - [You were living with him and his wife...
Because he felt sorry for you...
It was a friendship, but HE changed that; you tried to talk him out of it???
You just assumed you'd be married.... (view)
Sun 14 Sep, 2003 10:14 am - Ok ... Ive read all your posts. and I thank you for your advice. yes he was married for 5 years before, and we got married about 2 months after his divorce came through.
He came home today, I... (view)
Sun 14 Sep, 2003 12:30 am - We were best friends.... we helped each other through some serious crises and tragedies, and when his marriage was breaking up I was there to talk to them both and try to resolve issues. He changed... (view)
Sun 14 Sep, 2003 12:14 am - I think I have more, but I am so tired I cant think straight. He gets back home tomorrow morning and I already have a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach because I dont know how to react... am... (view)
Sun 14 Sep, 2003 12:12 am - Fourthly, he doesnt like to socialize, he doesnt like to make friends, he doesnt introduce me to his friends from work, and while he knows their wives, I know no one. This isnt a big deal, but when... (view)
Sun 14 Sep, 2003 12:05 am - thirdly, I used to be an independant, confident woman, I am not anymore. The other day during an argument, I was telling him that I was trying so hard to make things work, that I was trying to be... (view)
Sun 14 Sep, 2003 12:02 am - thank you, but no. I would definitely like to continue, I want to know what the problem is, or if that is the case, who.
The very first complaint I have is that my husband
does not communicate.... (view)
Sat 13 Sep, 2003 10:31 pm - I placed the lubricant near his computer to show him that even though I had a problem with what he was doing, I wanted to be supportive, I thought if I would be more accepting of it he would be... (view)
Sat 13 Sep, 2003 08:22 pm - Thank you all so much.... I dont know what to say... I never thought Id feel comfort from unknown unseen people spread out all over the world...
Im hurting , Im numb, I feel dead inside, I cant... (view)
Sat 13 Sep, 2003 12:28 pm - yes.... it really hurt when he said that.... I couldnt believe he would take my confidences and use them against me in an argument like that. (view)
