Sun 4 Mar, 2007 07:44 pm - To love someone is to have that person's growth and best interests at heart. Lust is the opposite of love as it may seduce another into an action they might regret. God has made you with an... (view)
Tue 27 Feb, 2007 12:31 pm - Well last night ended in an unpleasant fight. At dinner table I told of a colleague who's wife is pregnant again with the first one just 8 months old. She became ill and he took the day off... (view)
Mon 26 Feb, 2007 07:27 pm - Thanks people your insights are extremely helpful. I have spent a few days now typing a letter to my wife in which I advocate reconciliation, but with the proviso it is complete and with absolute... (view)
Mon 26 Feb, 2007 05:08 pm - Yes we have been to counselling, but my wife felt that it did not help her. She became more resentful and felt that the counselor sided with me against her. She subsequently saw someone else on her... (view)
Mon 26 Feb, 2007 04:16 pm - The kids are aware of the tension, and I think they are a bit tense too. They were much more chearful and playful about a year ago when our relationship was good and things were seeming to work... (view)
Mon 26 Feb, 2007 03:53 pm - Thanks for the input sofar. Initially our getting back together was all because of my insistance, but it was one way traffic and never worked. The last time I gave up and walked away; my wife then... (view)
Mon 26 Feb, 2007 01:56 pm - I have been married for 19 years now, the first 10 of which were great. The last 9 have been dreadful with infidelity on both sides.
Problems started after the birth of our last child. I... (view)
