Fri 8 Jun, 2012 05:14 am - The only reason i think she should switch jobs rather than me is i have the better job , it would be harder to replace, and even tho we need her income as well she could find another job that pays... (view)
Fri 8 Jun, 2012 01:04 am - You must have looked at shift work at same time i was explaining what i found since they posted at same time. Its not a matter of slight lifestyle change or minor decrease in income here . I... (view)
Fri 8 Jun, 2012 12:43 am - No the post wasnt about shifts its about the problem , im thinking the shifts we work are part of the problem which was brought up early in thread . I want opinions of what people think i can... (view)
Thu 7 Jun, 2012 11:23 pm - I see what your saying but my job has to stay to support our life no way around it ? And im sure she would agree on a money stand point . But i did ask her to find a night shift job to be on... (view)
Thu 7 Jun, 2012 04:12 am - We go on vac and it doesnt really help ? I started this 2nd topic because she actually mentioned sex last night and i didnt really even get excited about it ! We go so long in between and have... (view)
Thu 7 Jun, 2012 03:58 am - I work 11pm to 7am wife works 8am to 5pm . Im 30 she is 28 and we only have sex once a month at best , 75% of that is a shower quicky ! I've gotten to where i will turn the shower... (view)
Wed 6 Jun, 2012 09:30 pm - If i bring up her mood , or stressful routine , daily problems that i've mentioned already she is ready to fight so we get no where . If u
I mention the issues with sex life then she usually... (view)
Wed 6 Jun, 2012 06:40 pm - She wouldnt think of letting someone else clean her house , hell if she doesnt personally do it it wasnt done right . As for weekend vac, we do go once in awhile and she will somewhat relax but... (view)
Wed 6 Jun, 2012 05:32 pm - OCD.. I have tried to suggest seeing her Dr. I told her she may be needing something to help balance her out ? That it wasnt normal for someone to be this mad at the world all the time . She... (view)
Wed 6 Jun, 2012 05:27 pm - I work 40 to 50 hrs a week 3rd shift and she works 40 hrs 1st shift . I do at least 30% of housr work and 75% of yard work ? She never acts like she doesnt feel im pulling my weight , She... (view)
