Like to go sailing, gardening, reading, hiking, love nature, love to eat & love to love watch movies on my big screen (don't like movie cinemas, too impersonal), and spend nice evenings with friends and loved ones.
Fri 23 Jan, 2004 01:30 pm - Thanks. I just spoke to him. He is telling me that going to the therapist last night has helped him. Therapist told him he was this close to burnout. That seemed to help him as he thought he... (view)
Fri 23 Jan, 2004 09:48 am - Oh and another thing he told me originally when he said he was feeling detached, was that it was difficult to love someone when there is resentment. Resentment because he was feeling trapped.... (view)
Fri 23 Jan, 2004 09:45 am - Hi, After the long going back and forth of my previous post "What happened 13 years of love.." My husband seems opened to make things better. i.e. he says he is starting to think that... (view)
Fri 23 Jan, 2004 07:14 am - Thanks for your support. I think there might be hope, last night we sat down before his appointment with the therapist. He told me "you know the other day you asked me if being trapped was... (view)
Wed 21 Jan, 2004 12:08 pm - yes Sozobe, it seems our posts are crossing. I know that exercise might do me good. But I've always got this black cloud hanging on top of my head no matter what I do, and it's not very... (view)
Wed 21 Jan, 2004 12:05 pm - Thanks. I wish I could do that, keep myself busy etc. I just don't have the energy, or the get-go at this point. Yes Dag, I work a steady job. I'm at work right now. I like to read,... (view)
Wed 21 Jan, 2004 11:55 am - Sorry Dag, I was writing my post to equalmar when you were writing one for me. But my response is similar. I see what you are saying, but how can you do all these things, when you are actually... (view)
Wed 21 Jan, 2004 11:52 am - Thanks Equalmar. when you say "talk about yourself to him", I think at this point he needs to focus on himself, and not on me, so I feel it might be better to let him do his stuff before... (view)
Wed 21 Jan, 2004 10:20 am - Thanks. You guys don't know how you're helping me here. I have friends, but I don't like talking about those things to my friends, I find them too personal, plus I get too... (view)
Wed 21 Jan, 2004 10:01 am - Husband just told me he is meeting with a Counsellor tomorrow night. That scares me a bit. What if he determines he needs a break from me or that the best way for him is to separate from me? Is... (view)
watch movies on my big screen (don't like movie cinemas, too impersonal), and spend nice evenings with friends and loved ones.
