Tue 3 Sep, 2019 09:37 am - Hi Mina,
Had the same exact problem with one of my bfs many years ago and managed to fix it, but it took some time. Like your boyfriend, if I was too direct in my comments about his hygiene he... (view)
Tue 3 Sep, 2019 09:05 am - Just thought I'd report back to give a quick update to anyone who is still interested. Hubby and I went through with it in the end, picked someone from a swingers site and I've seen him... (view)
Tue 20 Aug, 2019 01:46 pm - Ok thanks for clarifying and sorry to hear about your friend's death, that most have been horrific.
I guess the difference in our case would be that there would be no element of surprise.... (view)
Tue 20 Aug, 2019 12:38 pm - Sorry for calling you "ordinary", I'm sure you're special and brilliant in many ways!
I actually believe there's no such thing as a normal person, but I think you know... (view)
Tue 20 Aug, 2019 12:32 pm - ...and? You don't have to describe the sex but did you discuss with your lover how you both felt during the experience, and more importantly afterwards? How did it affect your relationship... (view)
Tue 20 Aug, 2019 12:23 pm - Thank you, this is more along the lines the kind of advice I'm after. When you put it that way, I can see the point of a written agreement. I was thinking of a piece of paper, but of course if... (view)
Tue 20 Aug, 2019 12:11 pm - Sorry but I have to disagree with you on some of your points.
Just because you personally can't imagine a husband loving and cherishing his wife and still wanting to explore a sexual... (view)
Tue 20 Aug, 2019 11:29 am - "When I experimented with dominance/submission we had a written contract about exactly what the relationship entailed and how far it extended."
A written contract sound quite extreme,... (view)
Mon 19 Aug, 2019 01:45 pm - Although IMAO I'd argue that King Solomon's statement says a lot more about the limits of his own communication skills than the intelligence of men and women around him (surely a really... (view)
Sun 18 Aug, 2019 05:11 pm - Yes agreed, you'd think the fantasy would be enough for him at least for now, but he keeps asking for the real thing. I don't feel under pressure, he's asking nicely enough and if I... (view)