Thu 10 Aug, 2017 01:17 am - Hi there!
What jespah here said is exactly my thoughts, I woud just add: give yourself permission to just be hurt. To deal with a problem, you have to go through all the stages of grief (denial,... (view)
Tue 8 Aug, 2017 04:14 pm - Ok, so you actually did try to talk to her about how you could be ok with no penetration, only touching and looking at her? You mentioned that this issue, if you ever start talking about it, is... (view)
Tue 8 Aug, 2017 11:38 am - Hi there,
first of all - is this your wife or fiancee? I'm kinda lost on details - in the beginning you call her your wife and then you say you're 'about to' marry her?... (view)
Tue 8 Aug, 2017 11:11 am - Guys,
thank you all for your thoughts on this. I've decided to do nothing about the message, will try to work on forgiving him and moving on so I can finally get rid of all the negativity... (view)
Mon 7 Aug, 2017 07:17 am - Thanks for your insight. I am thinking a lot about what I should do and what you described is the most probable option for now. I'm just not sure I'll be ok with this in the long run. I... (view)
Mon 7 Aug, 2017 07:14 am - Well, when I care about someone, I don't assume they'll just come and go... I mean, I don't call people 'a friend' if they're not really important people for me. I... (view)
Mon 7 Aug, 2017 03:01 am - Roger,
That is my instinct too. 5 years of no contact and then a message out of the blue, in the middle of the night seems too little to just forgive and forget.
Thanks for your thoughts on this. (view)
Mon 7 Aug, 2017 01:47 am - A little back story: We’ve been friends for years, when teenagers throughout high school. I suspected he started having feelings for me at some point. We’ve even tried going out but it... (view)
