i'm a 40 year old irish man, im a paramedic for the last 18 years.
i've 2 kids age 12 & 3 and live in a small village near dublin.
i married my childhood sweetheart 16 years ago and have been with her for 21 years in total.
if your reading my posts you'll know where that sitution lies now.
by the way i'm the worlds worst speller. the spoken word is much more comfortable for me
Mon 20 Mar, 2006 10:16 am - five years ago there was no affair it was pure stress and by her own admission she never really got a grip on the work thing. apart from leaving there are some other odd things like joining three... (view)
Mon 20 Mar, 2006 09:14 am - thanks for the concern, i know that it seems to be me that i'm talking about but it's not. i'm not too bad i have friends around me and i use them when i need them. i've seen a... (view)
Sun 19 Mar, 2006 11:45 am - no loss but some family developments that will cause pain will be announced very soon. a huge amount of work related stress and a lot of time spent away from home with work are the only unusual... (view)
Sun 19 Mar, 2006 08:55 am - is it possible for a person to suffer a mental breakdown/depression and to seem in total control of their life. to most people to seem fine but to those closest to be totaly out of caracter, to be... (view)
Sat 18 Mar, 2006 06:05 am - well she's gone. we had a small talk yesterday before she left. she said that the excitement had gone, that i had gotten old before my time. i told her that i had to be home and perhaps a bit... (view)
Fri 17 Mar, 2006 04:32 am - happy st. patricks day from Ireland.
She's going today. she had a good chat with a friend of ours last night and said that she is mad about the new guy but her plan is to move to somewhere in... (view)
Thu 16 Mar, 2006 07:49 am - [quote]I also think your wife is in deep, deep denial. About her feelings for you.[/quote]
why deny something that you created? she has the change of feelings.
is she running from a mistake?
can... (view)
Thu 16 Mar, 2006 07:19 am - Jespah
your a clever kind woman you make great sense. i have been to a counselor and i will be alright. i know that we will do right by our kids[quote].[Even if you don't want a... (view)
Thu 16 Mar, 2006 03:18 am - the abuser was a family friend. i've never met him he seems to have stopped visiting around the time (it's 25 years ago) her brother thinks that her father is in someway to blame as the... (view)
Wed 15 Mar, 2006 03:29 pm - have to go now living in ireland getting late.
thanks to all views. look forward to more they will all help to to decide what to do next. nice to know people are willing to give up their time to... (view)
