Phoenix, can you point us to the moderator account? Please and thank you. I was looking for it the other day, and couldn't figure out where it was. I am admittedly not up on all the screens available. (i still have no idea what the 'query' is that MapleLeaf kept telling us not to use in his 'who posted this' threads)
Click on the link in my sig line and you'll be connected to sending a PM to the Moderator account (there's a similar link in timberlandko's signature line). It's a lot easier if you send stuff to the Moderator account rather to one of us individually, as we - I know this will come as a surprise to some - are occasionally offline. :-D
And I reiterate what Phoenix said: it is not a bother and should not be seen as a problem for you to contact us. We want
to help you. But we are not omniscient. We do not know if there's something offensive that was said to you because we cannot read minds - what is a problem for you, we might shrug at - we simply don't know your reaction unless you tell us.
Folks, I applaud attempts to resolve differences amongst yourselves, but the fact is, if these are violations of the Terms of Service, we need to know about them (stalking, in particular). You aren't tattling. You aren't being uncommunity-minded. We are here for a reason. Let us help you. Thank you!!!
PS EhBeth, the "query" Mapleleaf is referring to is the Search function, which is available at the top of every screen.