That sucks, Dag.
1 in 2.3 isn't horrible and I do wish you the best of luck. Alternately k-1's and k-3's aren't quite the nightmare they're rumored to be. I have a Russian friend who accomplished it and stayed married just long enough to satisfy the law. I recall only one check up, and that was in the first month. After about a year, she didn't even live in the same State as he, but no one knew the difference. Alternately; false documents aren't difficult to get, and
rumor has it some papers are good enough to file for tax returns and vote. :wink: Many employers will accept any papers that will fulfill their legal requirements, anyway, so even cheap chuecas suffice for most. You are a prime example of why our current immigration laws blow. Best wishes, darlin.
Ps. Feel free to PM me for more detailed responses.