Quote:Here, we take pride in our independence
Yes, that's a virtue or characteristic that is preached to almost every American from the time they are born.
Quote:and many are striving
to be little kings or queens, not needing anybody.
In terms of our government, I'd agree, but when speaking in terms of individuals, I'm not sure what you mean by this.
I'm happy to say very few of my family or friends display such an attitude. I freely acknowledge I would be lost and bereft without my family and friends and that the knowledge that I can and will always be able to depend on them is instrumental in giving me confidence to face the world and any problems I might encounter. I think they feel they can count on me in the same way.
And I've met very few people who have ever expressed the sentiment that they wished they were
more isolated as individuals.
Those who I've talked to who don't have a family unit or support system they can count on usually express the fact that they wish that they did, so I'm curious what experiences have you had that lead you to believe this to be true about Americans?
But I do agree that our lifestyle and the increase in the use of various technologies has caused an increase in the tendency to isolate. Alot depends on where you live though. When I lived in a small town in Maine, I saw people outside walking, doing yard work, kids playing in the park or riding their bikes, etc. at all hours of the day from morning to night. When I lived in Chapel Hill, NC- I could walk outside on a perfect summer Saturday at 2:00 in the afternoon in certain neighborhoods and not see a soul. Sometimes it reminded me of a science fiction movie in which the humans had been mysteriously transported and the earth had been abandoned. The only sound would be the hissing of the sprinklers. All the children would be inside (in the air conditioning-as you said) playing video and computer games. It was sad. I moved.