Fascinating topic and responses. A few that caught my eye :
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Fresco
Quote:"Will power" is an ephemeral action plan adopted by the committee we errroeously think of as "a unified self" in opposition to some of its members.
Yet that committee that is made up of different ‘aspects’ of us, is also one.
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Flushd
Quote:If you try to do something and fail, I think it is a weak excuse to blame it on will power. Like Yoda said, 'there is no try, only do or do not'.
If you failed, either you didn't work hard enough at it or your plan had a fatal weakness. Will isn't the thing, but choice.
Just a note on the two paragraphs " if you extend 'there is no try, only do or do not' " then failing has nothing to do with ‘there is only do, or do not’ " success and failure are subjective idea’s of the outcome, whereas the outcome is just the outcome.
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Cyracuz
Quote:But more on the subject; I think it is as flushd said, quoting a little green doll. There is no try, only do or not do.
If I fail it is because I wasn't doing what I thought I was doing. We hit where we aim every time. It's just that we do not often know where we're aiming.
It is also that, the process is often so automated, that the automated process may not serve us well for the particular circumstance.
Quote:So in short, in my experience, the best way to become the master of one's own will is to purge one's own heart of fear.
If you do not fear failure, you will not fail.
Failure is subjective, and whether you fear failure or not, you will at some time, fail. Failure is over-rated though, for there is only creating (or Yoda’s do, or do not).
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JLNobody
Quote:The idea of "will power" is mistaken. It rests on the notion of a self (ego) that is either strong or weak, that succeeds or fails depending on its degree of freedom and control. I say there is no such thing as an ego-self. But If there is no "ego-self", how do we describe the difference between a person who quits smoking and one who "can't"?
I see it in terms of a simple model of competing drives--the stronger ones win out at any particular occasion.
Competing drives suffers from the same issue as the ego-self " what causes it? How constructed are they? Do you know that children rewarded for achievement grow up with a higher need to achieve than children not rewarded for success? How much of ‘drive’ is constructed via reward and punishment? How much of ‘drive’ is a result of hope or fear? Is fear real? What about hope?
Willpower is simply creating. You either (in Yoda’s words) do, or do not. And even in ‘doing not’, you are creating. It’s just a matter of what is created. You can be a passive observer of life, or you can create what is in your power to create (hence, will & power = willpower)
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Cyracuz
Quote:I can relate to that JL. I make tons of recordings of my music. Demos that never reach beyond the closest cirlcle of my friends. It is because I do not know if I am willing to sacrifice the belief that I can succeed. If I should try and fail, I do not know if I'd like that very much.
Unfortunately as I see it, you’ve already sacrificed that belief. The rest is just a veneer (ie. Self deception) we humans do to make ourselves feel better. Had you actual belief, you would already have submitted your work, because no reason would exist not to submit your work. Just create.
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Rockpie
Quote:i believe it is a combination of self-discipline and self-confidence. no more, no less.
Where do those two things come from?
Discipline is following a routine? Is it punishing yourself if you fail? Or rewarding yourself if you succeed? Is it sticking at something you don’t like? Doing what others don’t do?
Why is confidence necessary? Say you’re poor, and you’ve no idea how to get rich - do you have confidence that your first step will succeed? Do you think your skills, right now, are up to it? Is self-confidence the belief you can eventually succeed, despite likely short term failures? Or is that sort of attitude something else entirely?
Where does that attitude come from?
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Terry
Quote:Will power is the ability to do what you ought to do instead of what you want to do. The reasoned input to the gestalt mind triumphs over the emotional/biological input.
Is the emotional/biological input wrong, or bad? What if it’s neither, but simply a faulty programme? Can’t you use willpower to get rich? Is that what you ought to do? Don’t people use their willpower to ‘crush’ other people?
Quote:I think that a large component of will power is learned through punishment/reward training in childhood (such as parental approval for exercising self-discipline) and one of our biggest social problems in America is that so many reach adulthood without developing it.
So willpower is an automated programme? Isn’t that just a programme? If the programme is faulty, and not serving what you are trying to achive...but it's so automated that is what you are doing...where does it show the power to carry out your will?
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Drewdad
Quote:Yep. No such thing as "will power." There is only "motivation."
Where does motivation come from? I really want something to eat? Are you going to give me something to eat? I’m motivated by hunger, but I’m just sitting here at the moment...while someone with the same hunger as me is making himself a sandwich...what’s the difference?