LOL !! I was never in consumer marketing, but other group who are - worked closely togther with us. My marketing was done (corporate marketing) in posh resteraunts over $100 bottles of wines (Thank god)
But us marketing people sometimes do tend to have a "superiority complex" in thinking that we can anticipate your needs much better/before than you actually can do. And then spend oodles of time trying to convince you of this fact !!
For eg, was chatting to a delegate in a conf last week, we actually hold the martial status of some of our customers, and the moment we find out that he/she is married, we try and sell them a supplementary credit card for their spouses !!!
Surprisingly, 70% of the time, we succeed !!