Ok, I've calmed down significantly now. I really just needed to have a fit today. It just builds up inside ya know? I cried most of the afternoon. Then went to my ex-flings house and had a chat with him and he hugged me and let me cry some more. Man I really needed that. And then I talked to my best friend who help pull me back into perspective again. She's a pro.
And then I went back to the hospital, had a talk with my dad, a talk with my mom, and now... well I feel much better. Sometimes when stuff like this happens it stirs up stuff I've forgotten about. Things from the past that still hurt a little and it just makes it all seem that much more overwhelming for a while. It's easiest to just kind of go through the cycle, get it out, and get on, if you know what I mean.
JPB, I really didn't mean I would up and leave right now. I just meant when it was all over and mom was settled that I wanted to just chuck everything and hmmm... run away I guess would be the best way to put it. Just forget it all. I still carry a lot of disappointment concerning my family in my heart (obviously) It's not that I don't love them. I do love them as best I can. But sometimes I run into the empty spots in life. These voids that have never been filled because of how things are in my family, and well that kinda hurts.
I've learned to deal. I've learned to keep moving. I've learned I can't change my family. Though honestly sometimes I wish I could. I wish I could know what it feels like to have the kind of support I see that others have from their families. To have that feeling that they really would stand by you through thick and thin, and they would do it because they love you, not just because you are a blood relative. It's hard to explain though. I don't know if I really can.
I also need to be thinking about my paternal father in MI. He also will need my support too when things eventually get bad for him. It's just a lot to take in right now, and some days if I'm not careful I can let myself get mowed down by it all. I don't plan on rolling around in any mire pit here for any extended period of time. However, I have a feeling I may trip and fall into the mire pit here and there along the way. You know? Fear not though. I will come back to my senses. Once I find them again that is.