coexist wrote: Obviously it is punishable by law.
Not in all countries.
My fathers family came directly from Africa.
My mothers family were right here in America when the white folks invaded them.
My mothers side of the family is Cherokee... I have no doubt that MANY women in my direct blood line were raped, sold, married, tortured..
possibly
before they were 8.
My fathers side came from Africa.
I have no doubt that the tribes in Africa are still having what we would consider " inappropriate marriages" based on age alone.
But, I am not going to drudge through history to wear a chip on my shoulder due to my great great great great grandmother ( or whom ever ) being 11 when she was married
in reality there is nothing I can do about it.
Just like there is nothing I can do for the women who were married before they were 10.
THere are still tribes, societies, countries, cities..etc.. that marry young.
Pigmy ( insert weird name here) in the rain forests usually have children by the time they are 10. And that is some what considered a late bloomer.
Someone going to go after them for child abuse??
Just because we as a country think that people should not marry at the age of 10, does not mean that it isn't socially acceptable, and expected in other countries for this practice to happen.
If you are raised in a society that promotes young women as potential wives, and not as children for sexual abuse.. whos to say that the man who is marrying is looking at them as a pedophile would? ANd not as a man who is thinking something along the lines of .. " she will live long for my children.. She will outlive me. There for, she will be around to take care of my ailing parents, our childrens children etc...."
Remove society tabu, and you have a basic ground for other kinds of marriage to stand on .
If a man marries a girl at the age of 10 when he is 30, she will out live him, and continue to provide for their children after his death. That is a way to secure stability for his offspring, his parents, and other parts of his family.
I know a man from Turkey who explained 'young marriages' to me once, and this is often what is seen when someone thinks of marrying a YOUNG woman.
All of that aside, I too think it is a horrid practice and cant stomach the thought of a 30 year old man even CONSIDERING a girl that young as a wife.
But , I was not raised in a society that promotes that, or doesn't think it is wrong.
I dunno..